Djamila
Bosnjakinja
I'm curious as to how different our religious views are compared to those of our parents and grandparents.
Please share as much as you're willing, and give everyone a picture of the religious background you come from - and from this we can see how far the apple falls from the tree.
I'll start with my grandparents. I never knew my paternal grandparents, they died long before I was born, when my father was young. My father never really talked about them, I think it was difficult for him.
My maternal grandparents were both very religious, especially my grandmother. My grandfather died in the 1950s but in his photos he wears a fez and my grandmother says he was very devout. My grandmother is a woman of her era, bigoted and crass. She doesn't really have much nice to say about you unless you're a Bosnian Muslim, from a respectable family, born and raised within a few blocks of her doorstep. All of this is cultural, though, not religious.
Nena has only ever gone to one mosque in her life. When she is in Kozarac, she'll go five times a day. If she's somewhere else, she won't go at all. She wears a veil most of the time, but so do all women her age in Bosnia - regardless of their particular faith. She reads the Koran a lot.
My mother was mixed, really. She was religious in some regards but overall I would say she was a socialist. She wore a veil when she and my father first married but soon dropped the habit. I remember many mornings my father would wake me up for prayers but my mother would stay in bed. I think she considered, or wanted to consider, herself better than the villagers she came from and she associated devoutness with rural Bosnia and a more primitive way of life.
My father was extremely devout, he even kept a beard - which is weird in Bosnia even today. He didn't go to mosque five times a day, but he prayed five times a day - as I do. He recited the Koran a lot, talked to Imams before making any major decisions in his life, and these sorts of things.
That's about it I suppose.
Please share as much as you're willing, and give everyone a picture of the religious background you come from - and from this we can see how far the apple falls from the tree.
I'll start with my grandparents. I never knew my paternal grandparents, they died long before I was born, when my father was young. My father never really talked about them, I think it was difficult for him.
My maternal grandparents were both very religious, especially my grandmother. My grandfather died in the 1950s but in his photos he wears a fez and my grandmother says he was very devout. My grandmother is a woman of her era, bigoted and crass. She doesn't really have much nice to say about you unless you're a Bosnian Muslim, from a respectable family, born and raised within a few blocks of her doorstep. All of this is cultural, though, not religious.
Nena has only ever gone to one mosque in her life. When she is in Kozarac, she'll go five times a day. If she's somewhere else, she won't go at all. She wears a veil most of the time, but so do all women her age in Bosnia - regardless of their particular faith. She reads the Koran a lot.
My mother was mixed, really. She was religious in some regards but overall I would say she was a socialist. She wore a veil when she and my father first married but soon dropped the habit. I remember many mornings my father would wake me up for prayers but my mother would stay in bed. I think she considered, or wanted to consider, herself better than the villagers she came from and she associated devoutness with rural Bosnia and a more primitive way of life.
My father was extremely devout, he even kept a beard - which is weird in Bosnia even today. He didn't go to mosque five times a day, but he prayed five times a day - as I do. He recited the Koran a lot, talked to Imams before making any major decisions in his life, and these sorts of things.
That's about it I suppose.