Sex while menstruating?

Terrywoodenpic · Oct 20, 2017

It is not something I would knowingly initiate.
It is very messy and sometimes happens...
But in no way unhealthy or Taboo.
The chances of conception are vanishingly small......But not apparently impossible.

To some people it is a fetish and something they relish......

Tumah · Oct 20, 2017

Electra said:
" we also have a contractual obligation to have relations with our wives (the obligation is to her, not a mutual obligation"

that wives have to comply to sex?

No, when you have an obligation to someone, it means that you have to do something for the other person.

So "the obligation is to her" means that the man has an obligation to provide his wife with relations. Because she doesn't have a similar obligation towards him (that is, to provide him relations at his request), I added that the obligation is "not a mutual obligation". So he can't demand relations from her, she however can from him.

Electra · Oct 20, 2017

Tumah said:
No, when you have an obligation to someone, it means that you have to do something for the other person.

So "the obligation is to her" means that the man has an obligation to provide his wife with relations. Because she doesn't have a similar obligation towards him (that is, to provide him relations at his request), I added that the obligation is "not a mutual obligation". So he can't demand relations from her, she however can from him.

oh, my bad.
Thanks for sharing.

Electra · Oct 20, 2017

Terrywoodenpic said:
It is not something I would knowingly initiate.
It is very messy and sometimes happens...
But in no way unhealthy or Taboo.
The chances of conception are vanishingly small......But not apparently impossible.

To some people it is a fetish and something they relish......

Polymath257 · Oct 20, 2017

A red towel can be useful in situations like this. And yes, it can relieve cramping.

Brickjectivity · Oct 20, 2017

Electra said:
" we also have a contractual obligation to have relations with our wives (the obligation is to her, not a mutual obligation"

that wives have to comply to sex?

Electra said:
wow ....
thanks for...
sharing....

I have heard that some 'christians' feel the same way too, that if the wife says 'no' they can force themselves on them with no issues...

You got his comment backwards. In their society for about four thousand years its been the reverse that in any marriage the contract stipulates the man must comply not the wife, for as long as they are married.

Terrywoodenpic · Oct 20, 2017

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ADigitalArtist · Oct 20, 2017

Polymath257 said:
A red towel can be useful in situations like this. And yes, it can relieve cramping.

It can for some, definitely not for everyone. It will start or make my cramps worse.

SabahTheLoner · Oct 20, 2017

I don't care what other people do in their bedroom but I personally wouldn't want to do anything sexual when I'm menstruating because I get a lot of pains/cramps that don't need any more excitement, plus I'm just not in the mood around that time.

Electra · Oct 21, 2017

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Enoch07 · Oct 28, 2017

I have no problem with it. I've had girlfriends that do or do not for their own reasons, so it's mainly up to them. But presented with the option I am up for it.

ChristineM · Oct 28, 2017

Like marmite some love it, some hate it. For me it's no problem after the first two or three days.

Deidre · Nov 21, 2017

My hubby and I have sex during that time, but in the shower where you can't really notice. I don't know what any religion says about it, though. I never thought about that aspect of it.

metis · Nov 22, 2017

Electra said:
Do you follow an allowance of this practice or is it condemned?

No bloody way.

Electra · Nov 22, 2017

metis said:
No bloody way.

lol

Stanyon · Nov 24, 2017

Oral sex would not be on the pleasure menu

metis · Nov 24, 2017

Question: Why does a Tampax have a string attached?

Answer: So one can floss after eating.

Electra · Nov 24, 2017

Stanyon said:
Oral sex would not be on the pleasure menu

Missing out on that one dude

Yummy

Electra · Nov 24, 2017

metis said:
Question: Why does a Tampax have a string attached?

Answer: So one can floss after eating.

hahahah

I always had a fear I would loose it inside, ..... it's scary

ZooGirl02 · Jan 2, 2018

I really doubt that I would. It seems a little too messy. Plus, the type of birth control I use pretty much gets rid of monthly periods for me.

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