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War on Christmas - Actual bans in the United States

pearl

Well-Known Member
What needs to be remembered is that "Christmas" is the "Mass of Christ".

This is the culmination of the Advent season, which for Catholics begins on the 4th Sunday prior to Christmas with the lighting of the Advent wreath.
 

lewisnotmiller

Grand Hat
Staff member
Premium Member
In the interests of full disclosure, I celebrate Christmas. Always have, always will. Most of the people I celebrate it with are Christian, if loosely.
But it holds no personal religious significance. Just a time to come together in terms of extended family. My family used to have that one intoxicated old uncle with the wandering hands, but he's passed away a few years back, so there's an opening if anyone is interested?
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
What’s left, and what remains the theological and spiritual core of Christmas, is the Incarnation.
It’s the reality that God has taken on human flesh, been born as one of us, like us in all things except sin. We Christians believe that in Jesus Christ, the human and the divine are brought together, are simultaneous realities.

I guess that is only significant if one believes that Jesus was God incarnated. I do not subscribe to that idea . It was "adopted' into "church" dogma centuries after Christ's death. Prior to that Mary was just the mother of Jesus...not the Mother of God.

The 'shortest' day of the year is also the 'darkest' day of the year. The timing is appropriate to celebrate the birth of Jesus as Light to the world.

That makes God a racist then.....all us southern hemisphere inhabitants are in the middle of a hot summer. "Dashing through the snow" with "jingle bells" is a bit lost on us in Oz. Frosty the snowman would be a puddle here.
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Seasonal festivals are for local inhabitants. Christians are in every nation on earth, so it makes no sense to have seasonal emblems that have no significance for those in other parts of the earth.
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
In the interests of full disclosure, I celebrate Christmas. Always have, always will. Most of the people I celebrate it with are Christian, if loosely.
But it holds no personal religious significance. Just a time to come together in terms of extended family.

I guess that is what people used to enjoy.....the family time over a meal together....nothing wrong with that, except that the days of happy united families are all but over. Blended or dysfunctional families have more to fight over at this time of year with kids at times being the pawns in the middle of it. It is also a time when police see a spike in domestic violence. It isn't the simple happy family time it once was for too many people. It has become a financial nightmare for others.

But why do you need a certain date in the year to spend time with family? Can't that be done at any time of year? Can't you give presents to your family any time of year? It makes no sense to have the whole country on holiday at the same time.....especially when the date holds no significance for many people like yourself.

The road toll alone should be enough for authorities to want to rethink this whole holiday. The sense of entitlement held by so many kids at this time of year, with no one to thank except someone who isn't even real. The kids who live in poverty must wonder why santa is so mean with his gifts when the rich kids can get presents worth thousands of dollars. How do you explain that to young children? Better not to lie to them in the first place IMO.

Holiday accommodation prices increase significantly too at this time of year, so it can be a very expensive exercise at the end of the day.
Summer in Australia usually means the beach, and as I live in a place where people come for their vacations, we have to put up with bottlenecks of traffic and tourists taking up all the spaces in the parking lots and on the beaches....empty shelves in the supermarket...and very slow internet.
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We are glad to see the back of them.

My family used to have that one intoxicated old uncle with the wandering hands, but he's passed away a few years back, so there's an opening if anyone is interested?

I guess you don't miss him then...?
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columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
He is good humored....but he is also a jealous God who tolerates no false worship....to Israel he said of the pagan inhabitants of the land....
Given the beliefs and worldview of the people that this was delivered to (by God Himself) , doesn't worshipping Jesus seem awfully risky? Christianity sure looks like blatantly disregarding the 1st Commandment to me.
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lewisnotmiller

Grand Hat
Staff member
Premium Member
I guess that is what people used to enjoy.....the family time over a meal together....nothing wrong with that, except that the days of happy united families are all but over. Blended or dysfunctional families have more to fight over at this time of year with kids at times being the pawns in the middle of it. It is also a time when police see a spike in domestic violence. It isn't the simple happy family time it once was for too many people. It has become a financial nightmare for others.

Come to my place and you'll see a happy family. As for dysfunctional...yeah, I'm not about to believe there was a golden age when families were both honest AND functional.
Violence spikes, yep. But it actually spikes much more on New Years than Christmas. And that's nothing new either.

But why do you need a certain date in the year to spend time with family? Can't that be done at any time of year? Can't you give presents to your family any time of year? It makes no sense to have the whole country on holiday at the same time.....especially when the date holds no significance for many people like yourself.

It holds no significance to me, but it does to others within my extended family. Unlike SOME stereotypes, atheists really aren't trying to rain on other people's parades, generally. I can fit with their celebratory calendar. Besides, we're all on leave from work, and have the precedent of our shared memories, our summer holidays, etc to make this more meaningful than an arbitrary date. Let's face it, May 13 just isn't going to cut it. December 25 has multiple precedents, even apart from Christian belief. It MUST be a good date.

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The road toll alone should be enough for authorities to want to rethink this whole holiday.

You want the AUTHORITIES to ban Christmas? Woooo.....no. So much wrong in that. I'm no Christian, but hands off.

The sense of entitlement held by so many kids at this time of year, with no one to thank except someone who isn't even real. The kids who live in poverty must wonder why santa is so mean with his gifts when the rich kids can get presents worth thousands of dollars. How do you explain that to young children? Better not to lie to them in the first place IMO.

I can see the sense in this. Let's just leave it as 'The community my kids are raised in and lived in is not the same as the one you'd raise yours in'. Just like the rules would be different again were I in another country.

Holiday accommodation prices increase significantly too at this time of year, so it can be a very expensive exercise at the end of the day.
Summer in Australia usually means the beach, and as I live in a place where people come for their vacations, we have to put up with bottlenecks of traffic and tourists taking up all the spaces in the parking lots and on the beaches....empty shelves in the supermarket...and very slow internet.
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We are glad to see the back of them.

Stick your house up on AirBnB, turn a profit, and use the cash to have a nice holiday away from the maddening crowds.

I guess you don't miss him then...?
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I do, actually. He was funny, and less...err...random I guess...when he was younger. He was not himself for the last few years though.
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
You want the AUTHORITIES to ban Christmas? Woooo.....no. So much wrong in that. I'm no Christian, but hands off.
No, no ,no...all I was suggesting is staggering the holidays throughout the year. Some could then have a skiing holiday
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or a nice break in the country to enjoy the autumn.....?
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Stick your house up on AirBnB, turn a profit, and use the cash to have a nice holiday away from the maddening crowds.

I used to have a neighbor who did this. He and his family always went away camping for 6 weeks over Christmas, so he rented his house out for the 6 weeks and made a nice little profit. Stone's throw to the beach. :D

I really don't want to get into this too much, but I always have the same thoughts when this is raised...
Who's God jealous of? I mean...he's the only God, right? So he's jealous of...err...the completely made up deities of little people he himself designed?
That sounds pretty petty.

Its not the kind of jealousy that humans experience...that would be petty.

According to Biblical usage, “jealousy” may be a positive or a negative quality or emotion. (Proverbs 14:30; Zechariah 1:14) The Hebrew noun qin·ʼahʹ variously means “insistence on exclusive devotion; toleration of no rivalry; zeal; ardor; jealousy [righteous or sinful]; envying.” The Greek zeʹlos has a similar meaning. (2 Corinthians 11:2; 12:20)

Its similar to the kind of jealousy a man feels when his wife might be attracted to another man. The repercussions of acting on that attraction might be disastrous for the family, especially the children. He wants the family to stay together and warns us not to play around with other gods and bust up his spiritual family. A faithful wife is prized by her husband because he trusts her implicitly....and so is a faithful worshiper to God. ;)
 

metis

aged ecumenical anthropologist
Christmas in no where any more "pagan" than having a church, a temple, or a kingdom hall because "pagan" religions had much the same long before Christianity developed.

"Guilt by association" is maybe an interesting game to play, but the reality is that Christmas in a Christian holiday even though there are symbols involved in churches today that may have also been part of some "pagan" worship way back when.

IOW, if you're Christian, go out and celebrate Christmas with your families without feeling guilty, but if it bothers some other Christians here, then don't.
 

Akivah

Well-Known Member
And for those of us who are Jewish, enjoy the last day of Hanukkah-- sick of latkes yet? I ain't, although I use them as an excuse to pile on gobs of sour cream.

I'm not aware of anyone that eats latkes every single day of Hanuka.
 

Akivah

Well-Known Member
What’s left, and what remains the theological and spiritual core of Christmas, is the Incarnation. It’s the reality that God has taken on human flesh, been born as one of us, like us in all things except sin.

Yes, the reason for your season. It's why I will never celebrate this holiday. It's baffling to the people around my office that I refuse to participate in their holiday cheer. One fellow asked about the celebrations of jesus within Hanuka. He was surprised when I explained our reason for the season and how his god isn't in it.
 

pearl

Well-Known Member
One fellow asked about the celebrations of jesus within Hanuka. He was surprised when I explained our reason for the season and how his god isn't in it.

There is a religious celebration of Christmas and a secular celebration of Christmas. Any Christian familiar with Hebrew Scripture knows the reason for the celebration of Hanukkah and that it has nothing to do with Christmas.

It's baffling to the people around my office that I refuse to participate in their holiday cheer.

In your office is Hanukkah acknowledged a joyous occasion to celebrate?
 

lewisnotmiller

Grand Hat
Staff member
Premium Member
Everyone needs to answer these questions for themselves.
"The person faithful in what is least will be faithful also in much".

Which can be taken many ways, depending on one's view of the concept of 'faith'.
I agree that each should make their own choice in these matters.
 

metis

aged ecumenical anthropologist
Yes metis, its all about choice....but unless its informed choice, one can be breaking God's laws without really understanding why or how they are doing so.
No one whom is a serious Bible student would suggest that observing a holiday like Christmas is "breaking God's laws".

On top of that.you are one who's breaking "God's Laws" by not even trying to observe all 613 Commandments as found in Torah, so you should be one of the last people here demanding that others not break "God's Laws". When the scriptures talk about "the Law", that is a reference to Jewish Law-- all 613 of them.

So, for you to lay a guilt trip on others here about "observing God's Law", it is you, not they, that is acting unethically.
 

pearl

Well-Known Member
this time to the Galatians, Paul completely leaves out the account of his conversion. He states that when he was commanded to preach by Jesus, his first reaction was to speak to no one. Then he went to Arabia, then to Damascus, and three years later to Jerusalem.

Paul's own account is much older than that of Acts which is not authored by any of the Apostles. What is found in Acts is the theology of its author, thus the added details.
 

Akivah

Well-Known Member
Any Christian familiar with Hebrew Scripture knows the reason for the celebration of Hanukkah and that it has nothing to do with Christmas.

Actually Hanukkah isn't mentioned in the Hebrew bible.

In your office is Hanukkah acknowledged a joyous occasion to celebrate?
It's swept up into xmas. But there's only one other Jew here, so not much demand.
 
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