I didn't start this thread with the intent to condone the idea of people measuring or judging each other. Or even to propose that God has a grading system. Basically, my point was that if we as humans have standards for ourselves, even with regard to the purity and cleanliness of the food we eat, then God as Creator certainly has the prerogative to have standards.
We set our standards rather arbitrarily or by mutual agreement. The standards are relative to the individual or the group. God doesn't set standards for himself. God
is the standard itself by virtue of being Absolute. What I struggle with in your language is that you are humanizing God, attributing to him things like choices, prerogatives, values, standards, morals, ethics, tastes and preferences, likes and dislikes, attractions and revulsions, and such human dualistic structures - all of which are predicated on the existence of an ego, a sense of a separate individual self. None of this applies to God. To make it apply to God is anthropomorphizing, creating God in our own image. That's been the point I've been trying to make.
Upon further thought, I think I'd rather say that God isn't so much the standard, but rather the Goal. That's a little different. The standard is a sort of baseline acceptable mark. One can fall either below that standard, or above it, or
exceed it. You can actually set a new standard, by repeatedly exceeding it. You cannot exceed God. So in reality, the standard for humans is being human. The height of our humanity is to realize God as the Goal, not the standard.
Add one last thought here, do you think our standards we set as humans should apply to your cat or your dog? Why then would God do that with us mere mortals? That seems rather irrational, doesn't it? But God as Goal, with an invitation to "come up hither", is not. Compassion and Love draw Life to itself. I'm sure you can find some verses that support that.
I think these standards are based in and exist in His Being which is Love. So that anything which outside that love falls short.
But you see, that's the thing. Nothing is outside of that Love! It can't be. If something can exist outside of God, then God is not Absolute. God would be limited, "over there" somewhere outside. The only thing that creates that illusion of God outside our reality is our own minds which sees ourselves as separate from God, and from one another. I have experienced directly that veil of that illusion being ripped back in an instant, revealing the indescribable brilliance that Love shining through every object, through every soul, without exclusion. The only separation I have seen is in the minds of those who see themselves, who
believe themselves to be separate. That separation may be felt by the person, but the Reality of it is that separation does not exist.
So in reality, it's not a "standard" to live up to. It's a Realization of the true Nature of Reality, which is God.
I do believe that God loves all His creation and no one is excluded from His love, but the scriptures are clear than only those who desire to walk in the light and receive God are His children because Love cannot include those who desire the darkness and unloving practice evil or harmful deeds
All are God's children by virtue of being created by God. Not every person realizes that in themselves, and that is what these verses are attempting to express in the terms they do for the sake of conveying meaning to the listener, who have ears to hear without getting hung up trying to make these things strict definitions of the mechanics of these matters.
Where these "standards" come in, and I would actually prefer to call them "ways", is if the goal of the seeker is Unity with God, or "born again", then you have to remove the barriers and the obstacles that cause you to experience yourself as separate from God, and God separate from you. I like to put it that God is there the whole time, just waiting for us to be done doing whatever it is we are doing to try to find God. Our job is to remove the obstacles, and just let God be in us. The "standard" is a matter of opening to God, to get out of the way and let God be in us. Getting drunk out of your mind everyday is not getting out of the way, so the 'standard' is don't do that! It doesn't work.
I find the thought...
My experience of that Absolute Perfection, is that there is no judgement as we judge ourselves or others. Only acceptance and a desire for us to realize that in ourselves and be Free
...questionable because while above you said we should not accept harmful conduct, here is seems you are saying no judgement or distinction between harm or love should be made. In other words , are you saying we should accept any behavior in ourselves or others without judgement even when it is harmful or dangerous? And are you saying Love/ God accepts anything?
No, it's not like that. We obviously should not accept violence against others in our world. But there are two different set of eyes we are talking about here. Human eyes, and the eyes of the Divine, so to speak. From the "God's-eye view", God does not judge based on human values systems. God sees the soul, as I said. All the crap we do in this world is relative to our plane of existence, or being. The human plane in this case. He's not Santa Claus who checks if you've been naughty or nice at the end of your life to determine if you get the golden airplane or a lump of coal.
Anything that is temporal, whether it is our sins or our good conducts as humans, is not where God judges us. One can have lived the most miserable of lives, been rotten to others, greedy and selfish, lashing out at the world though a broken life at the hands of an abusive parent, for instance. But in facing God what one encounters is not scorn and disapproval, but Absolute Love, Absolute Grace, Absolute Compassion. God is not merit based. There is nothing anyone can do to "measure up" (which would only promote pride), and there is nothing anyone can do merit Grace. God simply sees "you", naked, as you are, and fully Loves you. He doesn't see those things we see and punish ourselves with. It's not that "sin" is accepted by God. It's just that it is not seen or considered by God in the way we consider it for ourselves in our pursuit of finding that Unity with God. God does not see us, as we see ourselves. That is my point. And it is my experience.
I find the idea of God's judgement to be a good thing, knowing it is based in Perfect Love because such Love includes justice for all.
And if that judgement is forgiveness, then how is it we worry so much about what God thinks? Isn't it really more our judgment of ourselves? We already condemn ourselves, and assume its God doing it. God isn't doing that. We are. If we can learn to love ourselves as God loves us, then we are free indeed.
The scriptures reveal this to me and bring a peace that all things which are not loving, everything that is harmful to self and others is in the process of being cleansed and will at some point be entirely removed by God so that only the gold remains. I think it is important that people are aware of this, so as to turn from unloving things to Love.
For our God is a consuming fire. Hebrews 12:29
While I agree with that verse, and I believe I loosely referenced it myself, the removing of the dross is our work, through being focused on God in our being. It is God as Goal, that shapes our will and intentions and actions towards removing those things which cause that sense of separation in ourselves. Once those are removed and we encounter God in his Being, in that radiant Light, then yes, all these things we held to melt away, are burned off in that Love. For that is the Nature of the Love, an all-consuming fire, where all sins we held to in ourselves are released by us, as we release ourselves into God.