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Class action status sought for JW sex abuse cases

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
Except if a child reports sexual abuse, the elders do not consider it a crime unless the perpetrator confesses or there are two witnesses, so it won’t get reported to the police unless the legal jurisdiction specifically requires clergy to report the sexual abuse. In some countries, that requirement is silent/absent so its not reported to authorities at all.
How old is your imaginary child? 6yrs? 11yrs? 17yrs?
The point is that children usually report bad actions and bad things to their parents! Their parents might seek guidance from the JWs but they have every right to report directly to the police.

For instance, if somebody might report to me that my wife, uncle, brother (whoever) had committed a criminal offence I would most probably not report their claims and allegations to the police, I would probably tell them that it was up to them what they might decide to do. The same goes for companies, clubs, instutions, hotels.... or religions.

Here, in the United States many people are surprised to learn there is no national law requiring clergy to report allegations of sexual abuse. Some States and territories require reporting, some do not.
The allegations might be lies! To report allegations which later prove to be lies is serious defamation! Where a parent or any person alleges a crime then they themselves must report it to the authorities.

When an allegation is made the elder is first instructed to contact the local Branch Office. If the Kingdom Hall is in a mandatory reporting area, it is only then that an elder will be instructed to call authorities. .
Of course!
Forget the JWs for a second, just tell me what a company branch manager would do if an employee reported sexual abuse by a company employee........ That branch manager would most probably need to call a superior or a security department for further investigation.
Your getting nowhere with this.

However elders are also instructed not to bring “reproach” upon the Organization, so they will also be instructed to report anonymously or from a neutral location (that is, from a phone not tied to a Kingdom Hall).
OK.
Who do (or did) you work for? What was that organisation's code about the reporting of sexual offences?
Would you have offended your company if you had reported an allegation to authorities which was later unproven, bringing down reproachment and even litigation upon your company?

"If the accused denies the accusation, the investigating elders should try to arrange a meeting with him and the accuser together. (Note: If the accusation involves child sexual abuse and the victim is currently a minor, the elders should contact the branch office before arranging a meeting with the child and the alleged abuser.) If the accuser or the accused is unwilling to meet with the elders or if the accused continues to deny the accusation of a single witness and the wrongdoing is not established, the elders will leave matters in Jehovah's hands. (Deut. 19:15-17; Tim. 5:19, 24, 25; 28-29)"​
Absolutely!
No sensible organisation or company would arrange any meeting with a minor and an accused. No company that I know would arrange a meeting between accuser and any accused.
And single witnesses have been found to lie or perjure themselves in criminal trials. In the UK we have got fed up with those sex-crime witnesses who lie in court and if they are adults we jail 'em. Obviously children who commit perjury (and some have done so) have often been coerced into doing so, so further investigation about that would be necessary.

It’s important to remember that JW elders are always male, an important consideration if you’re a young female abused. They are not psychiatrists or social workers, and have absolutely no training in investigating child abuse matters.Their judicial process requires the child victim to confront the adult abuser. The child accuser does this without support because “observers” (like parents) are not allowed in the room:
Please 'source' any incident where the JWs have interviewed a child on their own, without a suitably responsible adult being present.

Sadly the last (previous) ArchBishop of Canterbury has recently confessed (been found out?) to applying some level of obstruction in several cases against one of his Bishops, that Bishop being later convicted of several criminal sexual offences and being imprisoned for many years (can't remember how many years).

The day that JWs are shown (reliably, please) to have committed any criminal offences reaching the levels of convictions upon priests from most other Christian Churches, that will be the day. :p
 

Oeste

Well-Known Member
@Oeste do you belong to a Christian Denomination?

Most certainly! I was born to a Christian church denomination which I attended with my parents. Then another where I attended church with my cousins. Then another, the Watchtower, where I studied their publications, but attended another shortly after 1975.

I've never considered important the name above the door. To me, it's vastly more important what goes on inside.
 

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
Most certainly! I was born to a Christian church denomination which I attended with my parents. Then another where I attended church with my cousins. Then another, the Watchtower, where I studied their publications, but attended another shortly after 1975.

I've never considered important the name above the door. To me, it's vastly more important what goes on inside.
Thanks for your reply.
OK, so you don't belong to a particular group of Churches, or Denomination or Creed....... or any which have a title?

I notice that you joined the Watchtower back in the day?
I only know a few folks that left the Watchtower, but they all seemed to be protagonistic to the JWs afterwards.
Would you say that you are a JW protagonist?
 

savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
For example, John 13:35 relates the following words from Jesus: "By this all will know that you are my disciples—if you have love among yourselves." Further in John 15:12 "This is my commandment, that you love one another just as I have loved you". As a principle, people who love each other respect each other. I wouldn't hurt in any way someone I love and respect.

I'm not sure what is written about that on the website but private citizens don't have judicial powers anyway. If you want to know more, feel free to contact the organization. They will be able to give you more information.
Some idiots think that sex is how they show love.
 

savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Does anyone here really think that this will stop the constant JW demonizing of Catholicism and other religious faiths?
That is a really good question! If I had to bet, I'd bet yes. On the other hand, I sure hope it is yes and if it is no, that would be SCARY!
 

savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
There are many reports of child sexual abuse in the Christian Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses. They can't all be parents or children making up false allegations. The fact is that for over forty years it has been decided by the faithful and discreet salve that the reports should be left to Jehovah to deal with when there wasn't sufficient evidence to believe that a man might touch a child the wrong way.

I don't believe only what I read. I know a faithful to the death Jehovah's Witness who has told me that her Jehovah's Witness husband molested her children.
 

Oeste

Well-Known Member
How old is your imaginary child? 6yrs? 11yrs? 17yrs?
The point is that children usually report bad actions and bad things to their parents! Their parents might seek guidance from the JWs but they have every right to report directly to the police.

For instance, if somebody might report to me that my wife, uncle, brother (whoever) had committed a criminal offence I would most probably not report their claims and allegations to the police, I would probably tell them that it was up to them what they might decide to do. The same goes for companies, clubs, instutions, hotels.... or religions.

That's great Old Badger. But I'm not talking about what you would do, nor am I talking about what goes on in companies, clubs, institutions and hotels. I'm specifically referring to what takes place in Kingdom Halls and more broadly what should take place in our churches.

The fact is, elders in churches receive reports of child abuse. These are not reported by imaginary children, but by real, breathing, bona-fide, living individuals.

The allegations might be lies! To report allegations which later prove to be lies is serious defamation! Where a parent or any person alleges a crime then they themselves must report it to the authorities.

Absolutely they might be lies. They might be truth too.
But reporting an allegation of child abuse is not defamation. It is simply a moral obligation.

Of course!
Forget the JWs for a second, just tell me what a company branch manager would do if an employee reported sexual abuse by a company employee........ That branch manager would most probably need to call a superior or a security department for further investigation.
Your getting nowhere with this.

I have no problem with someone calling in a superior. It's when they fail to report it to authorities that I have a problem.

If my kid reports an incident of sexual abuse to a scout master, and that Organization fails to report it to the the proper authorities, there is going to be a problem, plain and simple.

Your getting nowhere with this.


And single witnesses have been found to lie or perjure themselves in criminal trials. In the UK we have got fed up with those sex-crime witnesses who lie in court and if they are adults we jail 'em. Obviously children who commit perjury (and some have done so) have often been coerced into doing so, so further investigation about that would be necessary.

Well you should be fed up with people who lie or perjure themselves in criminal trials but I'm failing to see how that should affect the reporting of sexual abuse to secular authorities. Perhaps you can go into more detail regarding this perceived correlation.

If the trial exonerates the accused then the trial has served its purpose. The allegation was reported, it was reported, investigated, and tried. If the trial convicts the accused then the trial has served its purpose.

Please 'source' any incident where the JWs have interviewed a child on their own, without a suitably responsible adult being present.

Well you know how to hit my "Easy" button when you really want to, don't you? :)

It was "sourced" when I gave the quote. You can either believe this is actual Watchtower procedure, or you can believe it is not. The WT alleges they changed this recently, but I haven't seen a any authoritative communication which specifically addresses it.

You can source this yourself with a simple search, they're all over the internet. In fact, there are whole websites dedicated to them. Here's one at random:

"I was brought before a committee at the age of 7, along with my older sister, and another cousin who was younger than me who was also abused by the same boy. There were repeated hearings.. a few times it was just me and a few elders, where they asked for every conceivable detail. The last hearing was AT THE MOLESTER"S HOUSE, in the very room where the abuse started, with me sitting opposite the "adult" who had told me that if I ever told he would kill me. The elders did not so much as reprove the boy. I was told that I had been foolishly following the example of my father (, recently disfellowshipped, sitting there silently with his head in his hands), and that I had seduced the [abuser]. They said I was so cute, who could blame him for liking me? I was told that I would have to work very hard to win back Jehovah's love." Source

Sadly the last (previous) ArchBishop of Canterbury has recently confessed (been found out?) to applying some level of obstruction in several cases against one of his Bishops, that Bishop being later convicted of several criminal sexual offences and being imprisoned for many years (can't remember how many years).

Sounds eerily reminiscent of obstruction found in the Mark Sewall case, which you can read about here.

The day that JWs are shown (reliably, please) to have committed any criminal offences reaching the levels of convictions upon priests from most other Christian Churches, that will be the day. :p

Well then your day has arrived. :)

But's then it's really not a matter of convictions, is it? It's really about stopping child abusers in their tracks.

And as far as comparing the morality of one Christian religion against the morality and members of another, I'd simply rather leave that one for the cults.
 

Oeste

Well-Known Member
Thanks for your reply.
OK, so you don't belong to a particular group of Churches, or Denomination or Creed....... or any which have a title?

I joined a Baptist church when I was older.

Baptist are all over the place, in every theological persuasion. There is no single Baptist church that can claim sole copyright to "Baptist" as there are with some of the other churches. In fact, I could open up a church for cats tomorrow and call it Baptist.

I would describe myself as a mainstream Protestant that is theologically Evangelical.

I notice that you joined the Watchtower back in the day?

Fortunately I did not. I attended several years, studying, attending meetings, and knocking on doors with my cousin. My cousin eventually joined but I did not. Had I joined he and the friends I developed there couldn't possibly speak with me now. As it is, I can still talk and reason with them. The lines of communication are little used but they are open.

[QUOTE="oldbadger, post: 5328906, member: 39349"
I only know a few folks that left the Watchtower, but they all seemed to be protagonistic to the JWs afterwards.
Would you say that you are a JW protagonist?[/QUOTE]

I joined a Baptist church a few months after attending a Kingdom Hall in 1975. I remember being quite bitter against the Trinity when I joined, a remnant of my Watchtower instructors.

In any event, I stopped going to Kingdom Halls. But sometime, late in the 90's some Jehovah Witnesses left a pamphlet at my door which strongly suggested my church tolerated the sexual molestation of children. There was a huge picture of a Catholic priest on the cover but I had no illusion that my church, and every church around my neighborhood had been summarily lumped into a "church of Christendom".

This left me rather incensed since I had heard (from two unrelated sources) that a Kingdom Hall a few miles down the street from me was in the throes of their own child abuse scandal (the case was later settled...I have no idea for how much).

So I took out my bible and started studying. I really wanted to look at the Trinity and why the Baptist church I attended taught it. I did this through bible study alone, without the aide of any religious publication. I eventually came, kicking and screaming, to the conclusion the Trinity was scriptural and that the actual doctrine of the Trinity had been severely and purposely misrepresented to me by the Watchtower.

So the next time the JW's came knocking on my door I took the study. My first study lasted about 10 weeks, and despite my best efforts they canceled it because I wasn't "progressing". I didn't ask the questions found at the bottom of the page, and I didn't necessarily regurgitate what I found in their publication.

But the real reason I think is that I questioned their literature, which somehow represented, in their minds, a threat to the "faithful discreet slave". I didn't allow my questions to drop into obscurity...I insisted they follow up and be ready with answers by the next meeting. I also insisted they not ask me to do anything they weren't willing to do themselves. In other words, if you're not willing to go to my church, then don't ask me to attend a Kingdom Hall. This was a prerequisite for study.

In any event, my story is <yawn> boring. It's the stories and beliefs here that I find interesting.

What about you?
 

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
I am wondering why you might ask that?

Hi Savage......
Well, there are many thousands of Denominations, Churches and Creeds within Christianity. So the very very first 'thing' that I might ask a Christian who criticises another's Church is,'What is your Church?', or 'Do you know the accused?', or, 'Do you disagree with or dislike the accused?'.

I asked the first of those.

This, being a thread about proposed court cases, makes that a pertinent question. That is certainly what any lawyer would want any court to know.
 

sayak83

Veteran Member
Staff member
Premium Member
We base our actions on bible principles, which forbid the use of violence, sexual or of any other kind. There is a lot of emphasis from the organization to look after and protect each other in all situations, specially the children.
I haven't personally experienced any situation of abuse but like I said before, if it happens it is to be dealt with by the police. Nobody in the organisation has judicial rights to make decisions in the case of a crime.
Apparently the organization has singularly failed in Australia at least in this regard

'I was dead to them': How Lara escaped the Jehovah's Witnesses 'cult'
 

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
There are many reports of child sexual abuse in the Christian Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses. They can't all be parents or children making up false allegations. The fact is that for over forty years it has been decided by the faithful and discreet salve that the reports should be left to Jehovah to deal with when there wasn't sufficient evidence to believe that a man might touch a child the wrong way.
Hi again, Savage.... :)
Reports...... many reports..... insufficient evidence......
No Savage, the faithful, for forty years, have not left reports for Jehovah to deal with. :) Substantial reports end up with various countries' crime prosecution services for dealing with, and where there is rubbish evidence it has to be dumped in the prosecution service ruibbish bins.

I don't believe only what I read. I know a faithful to the death Jehovah's Witness who has told me that her Jehovah's Witness husband molested her children.
I don't auto-believe the allegations that I read. In decades of having worked as a commercial detective, often gathering evidence for defence lawyers, I have discovered so many malicious lies which were never prosecuted as 'perversion of course of justice' because once discovered the cases never came to court for such crimes to complete.

My granny was a miserable old so-and-so, but she always used to say, 'better a thief than a liar', and later on in life I came to understand the tenet so well.

Question:
1. Your acquaintance, the faithful unto death JW, was she parted from or divorced from the man who she claimed to have committed such crimes?
2. Did she go straight to the police with her child's allegations?

It amazes me how couples can live happily together for so long, but when they part the lists of crimes come rolling out.

One husband was a good father. One day his eight yrs old son was seen crying and clutching his groin. His winkle hurt so badly. His Dad inspected all but as he did so a neighbour walked into the kitchen to borrow something. That became a full on police investigation. I tell you, Savage, if I was a Dad today I would want two witnesses before I was to change a bloomin' nappy. Disaffected folks can lie so well.
 

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
That's great Old Badger. But I'm not talking about what you would do, nor am I talking about what goes on in companies, clubs, institutions and hotels. I'm specifically referring to what takes place in Kingdom Halls and more broadly what should take place in our churches.
I am! :D
JW leaders should do exactly what a youth club leader or a shop manager or bus company exec should do....... tell the complainant to go to the police! Under no circumstances should they themselves initiate any investigations about such serious criminal offences as sex crimes. They are not trained to do it!

Absolutely they might be lies. They might be truth too.
But reporting an allegation of child abuse is not defamation. It is simply a moral obligation.
If somebody knocked on your door, office, vehicle and said that had been sexually assaulted, robbed, whatever, I would strongly suggest that you tell them to call the police.
Lend them your 'phone!
Vee has handled all this already!

I have no problem with someone calling in a superior. It's when they fail to report it to authorities that I have a problem.
No!
What authorities?
Tell the complainant to call the cops!
If it's a child then immediately make contact with a suitably responsible adult and leave it all to that person.

If my kid reports an incident of sexual abuse to a scout master, and that Organization fails to report it to the the proper authorities, there is going to be a problem, plain and simple.
What? And your kid did not report it to you?
Your scout master could contact you straight away, yes, but s/he would probably wonder why you had not been told first?
Straight to the police and stand back.

Well you should be fed up with people who lie or perjure themselves in criminal trials but I'm failing to see how that should affect the reporting of sexual abuse to secular authorities. Perhaps you can go into more detail regarding this perceived correlation.
Sadly such lying villains don't often get caught lying to a court, because once the authorities have been made aware of such lies the cases do not proceed. In very bad cases a criminal (adult) might be nicked for wasting police time.

If the trial exonerates the accused then the trial has served its purpose. The allegation was reported, it was reported, investigated, and tried. If the trial convicts the accused then the trial has served its purpose.
Well then, let's agree that when little Christine's Mum makes allegations to a JW Elder that her estranged (whatever) huisband has committed a sex crime, the Elder should only suggest that she call the police.
Sadly such quiet folks as JWs are very unlikely to persue a perjurer through the courts. They are very easy targets, you know.

It was "sourced" when I gave the quote. You can either believe this is actual Watchtower procedure, or you can believe it is not. The WT alleges they changed this recently, but I haven't seen a any authoritative communication which specifically addresses it.
Oh trust me........ the Margate Pensioners' Bowling club has probably had to review its procedures about handling claims of sexual violations on the green.
The cover ups in commerce, industry, travel, hotels, retail, sports and media are absolutely astonishing.
The JWs aren't doing badly about being honest, actually.

"I was brought before a committee at the age of 7, along with my older sister, and another cousin who was younger than me who was also abused by the same boy. There were repeated hearings.. a few times it was just me and a few elders, where they asked for every conceivable detail. The last hearing was AT THE MOLESTER"S HOUSE, in the very room where the abuse started, with me sitting opposite the "adult" who had told me that if I ever told he would kill me. The elders did not so much as reprove the boy. I was told that I had been foolishly following the example of my father (, recently disfellowshipped, sitting there silently with his head in his hands), and that I had seduced the [abuser]. They said I was so cute, who could blame him for liking me? I was told that I would have to work very hard to win back Jehovah's love."
I could not open the source. What year was this, please?
Don't forget that Police Forces were turning away such allegations even 15 years ago.
Have you run a thread about that?

But's then it's really not a matter of convictions, is it? It's really about stopping child abusers in their tracks.
Unless you are a Police Officer I reckon that I have detained more paedophiles than you over the years, and I have listened to many more accusations that were quite simply malicious adult lies and/or sad minor's fibs.
Why do you think I took such interest in this thread?

And as far as comparing the morality of one Christian religion against the morality and members of another, I'd simply rather leave that one for the cults.
Well you are, Oeste.
That's what you are doing, imo.
 

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
What about you?

Thankyou for your own history of search.

I was an idiot for quite a long time. @Revoltingest might want to add to that. :p

Baptised when a brat. Confirmed into CofE when a young teen because that was a proper thing to do. (still an idiot).

Met and married a Bahai so I know a bit about Bahai, she died in 91.

Parking around here is poor so we let a JW park his car on our 2nd drive circa 87 and he could use it whenever he liked. He and his wife have called here ever since, and although they must know that I don't believe what they do my 2nd wife makes brilliant coffeee which might help them in their spiritual endeavours, but in any event our discussions have been very helpful both ways.

I'm a Deist, have been for 30 years. I have no agenda for or against JWS, BUT because I was a commercial detective and trainer for many many years I am very intense (irritable?) about investigations, allegations, truth-and-lies stuff etc.

If somebody made similar claims about, say, your church, I'd be right there, doing what I'm doing here, arguing for justice, but only justice.
 

savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Question:
1. Your acquaintance, the faithful unto death JW, was she parted from or divorced from the man who she claimed to have committed such crimes?
I am not 100% sure, but only 99.999% sure that she stayed with him until he died.
That is the Jehovah's Witness way. It is written, "Jehovah hates a divorcing". It is hearsay, I understand, but more than one child accused the father of it.
2. Did she go straight to the police with her child's allegations?
Of course not!! It is discouraged. Jehovah's Witnesses are taught that the World equals the devil.
Why would any Jehovah's Witness go to the enemy for help?
 

savagewind

Veteran Member
Premium Member
The Jehovah's Witness ruling party are known to do nothing when an accusation is presented.
They certainly do not suggest going to any worldly authority.
They probably ask the accused if he or she did it.
How many times do you think at that interview the accused says he did?

Then it is left in Jehovah's hand. The reason why is because it is written;

Deuteronomy 19:15
"A single witness shall not rise up against a man on account of any iniquity or any sin which he has committed; on the evidence of two or three witnesses a matter shall be confirmed.

2 Corinthians 13:1
This is the third time I am coming to you. "Every matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses."

1 Timothy 5:19
Do not entertain an accusation against an elder, except on the testimony of two or three witnesses.

The accused is left alone. Sometimes the accuser and his or her family are ostracized. Really? Yes, because
they might press a little for justice.

Many times the accused goes along to do it again. The congregation IS NOT notified about the accusation.

Sometimes the accused has been a privileged member and he has kept his privilege. Sometimes it is just
for freely going door to door.

To anyone not in the loop, he will look like a fine upstanding Jehovah's Witness and a person to be trusted.

BUT, it is also written that to be considered upstanding a man must be blameless and not under an accusation.

It is never written in the Bible that the two witness rule applies to crimes against children.
It is written that if just ONE child who has the faith of Jesus is stumbled it would be better for the one doing the stumbling to never have been born.

All the members of a congregation should be well known to those in charge. It is written "Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers."

I understand that if someone who has made trouble before makes an accusation, the elders should be wary.
I do not know for certain, but I think it is not the case. Jheovah's Witnesses are not treated as individuals and so the character of the one making an accusation does not come to play in these situations. So, the welfare of the accused is always considered before the welfare of the child.
 

DavidFirth

Well-Known Member
This is a pile of dung. No way ALL JW's are responsible for this. JW's do not teach or advocate this sort of thing so the lawsuit needs to be geared at those who are guilty.

This just sounds like a money grab attempt to me.
 

metis

aged ecumenical anthropologist
This is a pile of dung. No way ALL JW's are responsible for this. JW's do not teach or advocate this sort of thing so the lawsuit needs to be geared at those who are guilty.
I agree, but then I'd wish that the JW's, including some here at RF, would also stop demeaning entire faiths other than their own.
 
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