Father Heathen
Veteran Member
Title seems a bit silly huh? Obviously we should. Or...wait...
All their young lives our children are taught to be honest, to be fair, to be moderate and kind. These along with a whole host of other moral virtues that our society says it values.
Until they grow up.
The world is a harsh, cruel place where it's first come first serve, you have to be ruthless, to lie, to cheat and do anything to get that job. It's tough out there you know (implying that everyone else is a soulless b*stard).
So really, our society doesn't value these morals so much. If at all. I'd go so far as to say it doesn't at all. I mean can you imagine if hiring employees was an ethical practice? If buying and selling were ethical? If adverts were honest about products? Then we'd value moral virtue.
The mantra seems to be 'Be moral...when it suits you.'
So what gives? Why bother teaching kids to be good at all? It's not like we value it.
I teach my kids good morals and ethics because I want them to be better than the lowest denominator. It builds self-respect and self-worth, better social skills, etc. How you conduct yourself and how you treat others affects how others perceive and treat you.
That doesn't mean shelter them from the dark and cold realities of the world that they may face, but rather prepare them to successfully deal with and overcome such realities rather than succumb to them.
Societies are built upon codes of morals and ethics, as they would be unable survive and thrive without peace, order, and cooperation, which requires mutual of trust and fairness. Individuals have to maintain positive reputations in this regard. The more developed the ethics and morals, the more developed the society.
In my opinion, reason and compassion are the basis for superior ethics and morals.