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The Wedding of Jesus

omega2xx

Well-Known Member
The calls of one in denial


Yet more denial.

If you want to believe something with no evidence, be my guest.

I do respect Jehovah's Witnesses, and count them as among the most honest, lawful decent folks on Earth, but they would never call anybody 'fool'.

I respect them for their moralistic religion, but you need to do some study on the Bible they use, to respect their religion


There are only three types of people; those who have found God and serve him; those who have not found God and seek him, and those who live not seeking, or finding him. The first are rational and happy; the second unhappy and rational, and the third foolish and unhappy. Blase Pascal
 

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
The point is that a Rabbi in Israel just like senior Pastors among Protestants had to be a married man or about to get married. Otherwise, he would not be ordained as such.
What you are doing here is very simple. You are inventing stories about Jesus for which there is no particular evidence. Despite the lack of evidence, you firmly believe this because you feel it "must" be true.

This looks exactly like the process that resulted in all the implausible legends about Jesus. From the Virgin birth to the Resurrection, people kept inventing stories based on what they wanted to be true. Over time, this process going on in parallel communities resulted in a sort of competition. Who could write the most flattering and inspiring Gospel. It culminated, apparently, with the Gospel According to John. By then, nobody remembered much of anything about the historical Jesus.

And Christianity became a new religion.
Tom
 

Kenny

Face to face with my Father
Premium Member
What you are doing here is very simple. You are inventing stories about Jesus for which there is no particular evidence. Despite the lack of evidence, you firmly believe this because you feel it "must" be true.

This looks exactly like the process that resulted in all the implausible legends about Jesus. From the Virgin birth to the Resurrection, people kept inventing stories based on what they wanted to be true. Over time, this process going on in parallel communities resulted in a sort of competition. Who could write the most flattering and inspiring Gospel. It culminated, apparently, with the Gospel According to John. By then, nobody remembered much of anything about the historical Jesus.

And Christianity became a new religion.
Tom
IMO "What you are doing here is very simple. You are inventing stories about Jesus for which there is no particular evidence. Despite the lack of evidence, you firmly believe this because you feel it "must" be true."

John is in line with the other Gospels and according to James, the brother of Jesus, and Paul.
 

fallingblood

Agnostic Theist
The Wedding of Jesus

No, please, hold unto the stones, and no throwing until you hear what I have to say. Besides, that's not my final word. I am still researching the matter. That's a partial submission for some second thoughts on the matter. Jesus was a Rabbi and here are the proofs: Matthew 23:7, John 1:38; 3:2. In many other instances, he was addressed as Master, which means the same. The point is that a Rabbi in Israel just like senior Pastors among Protestants had to be a married man or about to get married. Otherwise, he would not be ordained as such.
I'm not opposed to Jesus being married. I think an argument could be made for it. However, this isn't the way to do so. The argument about a Rabbi is simply not relevant to Jesus. What you speak of in regards to a Rabbi (which can be debated as well), would only hold true in Rabbinical Judaism.

Rabbinical Judaism grew out of the destruction of the Jewish Temple, around 4 decades after the death of Jesus. It would take even longer for it to fully develop and mature. The point is, Rabbinical Judaism was not around during the time of Jesus, and the term Rabbi, as it is applied today, would not reflect on the time of Jesus. For Jesus, the term rabbi would have meant teacher. Nothing more or less. What may be true today about a Rabbi isn't the same as it was when Jesus lived.
Okay, but back to the wedding, Jesus' mother Mary had to do the host job; and she did it quite well by giving orders around to the servants. And according to another custom, the bridegroom was in charge to provide the wine, which mind you, Jesus made it sure to be of the best quality. The student would undergo the ceremonial "Mikveh" or immersion in waters and, if not married yet, to take care of that before ordination.
You're conflating ideas. The baptism by John is set in a very different perspective than a wedding. To refer to it in anyway associated with a wedding it to take it out of context, and ignore the rest of the story.

The wedding or celebration at Cana is probably the best argument for a marriage of Jesus, but the story is incomplete. Looking at the passage, it is clear that portions of it are missing. We can be sure of that as the transitions between passages are choppy in places, and seem to be missing information. But the story says nothing about John the Baptist, and to put him as an officiant simply interjects your views into the story, while ignoring what is known about John.
According to a certain custom, usually the mother of the bride would be in charge of the celebrations, (John 2:10) I can assert for this custom because I was married in Israel and reminded of the custom, which I had happily to comply. The tale of the miracle was interpolated much later to deviate the probing attention of those who have a mind of their own from finding out what was really going on in Cana.
Modern day Israel, and what you experienced, is different from 1st century Palestine. Just because something occurs today, doesn't mean it is a reflection on the past. The argument simply doesn't work.
After Jesus' wedding, you can check for yourselves, all Jesus' come-and-goes were from and to Bethany, the home of Mary Magdalene. It must have been a very spacious and beautiful home, since Mary had the means to maintain it. Mind you that Mary would also take the tab for the expenses of Jesus' group of Twelve Apostles, along with some other women of course, who would tip it in from time to time.
You're conflating two Mary's Mary of Bethany, and Mary Magdalene, who is probably from Magdala (wherever that might be. Such is suggested by her name. Either way, she isn't to be confused with Mary of Bethany).

Mary Magdalene may have supported the 12, but so did many others. That fact really means nothing besides that Jesus had decent support.
Whenever Jesus would return from his missionary campaigns throughout Israel, the address was Bethany. To his wife obviously, although most the time, Mary Magdalene would follow Jesus as his beloved disciple, but never at the level of the Twelve. The Church later interpolated John as the beloved disciple for the same reason to get the mind of the readers away from the thought that Jesus was married to Mary Magdalene. But it's not helping because the evidences are just too shouting.
Jesus doesn't always return to Bethany. Bethany is mentioned very little. Just because he does one time means nothing. More so, you conflated two Mary.

There is no evidence that the Church interpolated John as the beloved disciple. Really, the beloved disciple isn't named. There are theories, and the current one is that a community created the Gospel of John. The idea that Mary would be the loved disciple simply isn't supported in any version of the text we have, nor in any early sources we have on the subject.

Claiming that the Church did it really is a weak argument, and removes your argument largely to the field of conspiracy theory.
Do we have any hint to pick up as evidence for any romantic approach prior or after their wedding? Yes, we do. After Jesus exorcized "seven demons" from Mary, she must have fallen in love with him. (Luke 8:1-3) And the expression "seven demons" means the struggle that Jesus had to go through to rescue Mary from her not so reputable business in Magdala, which granted her a title she could never get rid of.
You're again conflating two Marys, as you do in the next paragraph as well. Mary Magdalene is never said to be possessed by seven demons, nor is she said to smear Jesus' body with perfume. The woman with demons isn't even said to be a Mary, but was only very late on said to be a Mary in order to simplify the narrative.

A lot of your argument relies on this conflation of various other women with Mary Magdalene, when none of them are actually Mary Magdalene. The foundation of your argument then crumbles.
Today, there are three speculations about their whereabouts. The first is that they settled down incognito in Talpiot, a small town to the South and not too far from Jerusalem, where some people have claimed to have found out the graves of Yeshua, Miriam and Yoseph. I went there personally but just to be told that the area could not be explored by orders of the local Meier for being under an Apartment building.
All three speculations that you mention are without merit though. The Da Vinci Code one is an admitted lie by the creator of the theory. The India one is based on one text, which not surprisingly, can't be accessed by anyone, and the one about Talpiot is pushed by one scholar who even admits that the evidence can't be fully substantiated, but that it remains a possibility, even though it can't be supported. (Part of the claim rests on the assumption that the James ossuary was removed from that tomb; however, such an assumption is recognized as not being able to be supported because the evidence is lacking).

Basically, the speculations, from a scholarly or historical perspective, are useless as their just isn't any corroborating evidence supporting any one of those three possibilities.
 

Tumah

Veteran Member
Hi...... Galilean Jews were comparatively late converts to Judaism.
The Levite tribe dates back to the beginning!
If Jesus had been a Levite then what was he and his Dad working with their hands for?
Levites had special duties like guarding the Temple. Jesus would have lead a totally different life.
Where did you get that from?
Assuming it was known that Jesus' father was a Levite, he still would have only spent about a month a year actually at the Temple. There were many more priests an Levites than what the Temple needed dor the majority of the year. They worked on rotation.
 

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
Assuming it was known that Jesus' father was a Levite, he still would have only spent about a month a year actually at the Temple. There were many more priests an Levites than what the Temple needed dor the majority of the year. They worked on rotation.

Hi Tumah....
I cannot figure how a Galilean peasant's bloodline could have connected back to Levite lineage, though.

I always believed that 2000 priests (all of them) were required to be present at the three major feasts, and that 6000 levites (including 'extras' of some kind?) were required to be present as Temple guards, etc.

How far out am I?

But Joseph, a land-displaced peasant handworker..... a Levite? Could that be possible?
 

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
John is in line with the other Gospels
All of which are implausible stories. They all resemble the sort of legends that would be produced by the process that the OP is using, making up stories that "must" be true but for which there is no evidence. The longer this process continues the less plausible the stories. Eventually Jesus gets deified in the imaginations of His followers followers grandchildren.
Despite the utter lack of any reasons to Believe except humans telling stories with murky agendas.
The oldest version of the oldest Gospel, Mark, doesn't even include the Resurrection.
Tom
 

David T

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
The Wedding of Jesus

No, please, hold unto the stones, and no throwing until you hear what I have to say. Besides, that's not my final word. I am still researching the matter. That's a partial submission for some second thoughts on the matter. Jesus was a Rabbi and here are the proofs: Matthew 23:7, John 1:38; 3:2. In many other instances, he was addressed as Master, which means the same. The point is that a Rabbi in Israel just like senior Pastors among Protestants had to be a married man or about to get married. Otherwise, he would not be ordained as such.

According to Judaism, after the proper preparation whatever it was at that time, probably, Mary's parents had passed away, because she used to live with her sister Martha and brother Lazarus. I mean, they lived with Mary, who was the one well-to-do. Martha would pay her room-and-board as a sort of maiden servant and Lazarus... well, I think he was a loafer-boy taking advantage of his rich sister. He was probably a sick man anyway, considering that he died twice.

Okay, but back to the wedding, Jesus' mother Mary had to do the host job; and she did it quite well by giving orders around to the servants. And according to another custom, the bridegroom was in charge to provide the wine, which mind you, Jesus made it sure to be of the best quality. The student would undergo the ceremonial "Mikveh" or immersion in waters and, if not married yet, to take care of that before ordination.

So, after Jesus' immersion in the Jordan River, officiated by John the Baptist aka Yonathan the Immerser, Jesus was seen in the next two days recruiting his disciples and leaving for Galilee. (John 1:29,35,43) And on the third day after his "Mikveh," The family and friends were celebrating his wedding in Cana with Mary Magdalene. Wait! Put down the stones! I'll explain.

According to a certain custom, usually the mother of the bride would be in charge of the celebrations, (John 2:10) I can assert for this custom because I was married in Israel and reminded of the custom, which I had happily to comply. The tale of the miracle was interpolated much later to deviate the probing attention of those who have a mind of their own from finding out what was really going on in Cana.

After Jesus' wedding, you can check for yourselves, all Jesus' come-and-goes were from and to Bethany, the home of Mary Magdalene. It must have been a very spacious and beautiful home, since Mary had the means to maintain it. Mind you that Mary would also take the tab for the expenses of Jesus' group of Twelve Apostles, along with some other women of course, who would tip it in from time to time.

Whenever Jesus would return from his missionary campaigns throughout Israel, the address was Bethany. To his wife obviously, although most the time, Mary Magdalene would follow Jesus as his beloved disciple, but never at the level of the Twelve. The Church later interpolated John as the beloved disciple for the same reason to get the mind of the readers away from the thought that Jesus was married to Mary Magdalene. But it's not helping because the evidences are just too shouting.

Do we have any hint to pick up as evidence for any romantic approach prior or after their wedding? Yes, we do. After Jesus exorcized "seven demons" from Mary, she must have fallen in love with him. (Luke 8:1-3) And the expression "seven demons" means the struggle that Jesus had to go through to rescue Mary from her not so reputable business in Magdala, which granted her a title she could never get rid of.

Then, in Bethany - where else? - when Mary was smearing Jesus' body with that expensive perfume, we all know, although we forbid ourselves to think about it, Mary did not just throw that perfume at him from afar. No way! She did smear him all over even in terms of massage; so much so that some of the guests thought it ridiculous and criticized the act done so, publicly. (Mat. 26:10-13)

Then, while everyone else would address Jesus as Rabbi, Mary would call him "Rabboni," a colloquial term used as an expression of love, especially by a Rabbi's wife. It also means Master of my sufferings, as Rachel named her son Benoni before she died from child birth. (Gen. 35:18)

Later, when Mary went to the tomb area after Jesus' crucifixion, and saw the empty tomb, she never suffered more in her life. She wanted to take Jesus' body away with her. (John 20:15) Then, she was crying without consolation. At her travail, she saw a man standing by, whom she thought to be the Gardener.

"Why are you crying?" the man asked. Jesus knew why but he wanted to enjoy the answer from his beloved's lips. Alas! She did not identify him! It was too dark. But then Jesus tried her name just the way he used to call her. "Mary..." It's hard to say it in writing, but Mary melted down and said, "Rabboni!" He was indeed the master of her sufferings. This is an expression with such a profound meaning in Hebrew or Aramaic that Mary jumped to hug him but Jesus, probably all in bandages, forbade her to cause him any more unnecessary pains. He would meet her later at more propitious circumstances. (John 20:17)

Then, after some apparitions to the disciples, Jesus said goodbye and left his company. From then on, the names of these three peoples were never mentioned again: Jesus, Mary and Joseph of Arimathea. Jesus yes, but only in connection with his teachings by the Nazarenes, a Jewish sect organized by the Apostles on Jesus
behalf. Joseph had to go along because, if he had stayed, he could be crucified for having cheated on Pilate regarding Jesus who was not dead when he took him off the cross.

Today, there are three speculations about their whereabouts. The first is that they settled down incognito in Talpiot, a small town to the South and not too far from Jerusalem, where some people have claimed to have found out the graves of Yeshua, Miriam and Yoseph. I went there personally but just to be told that the area could not be explored by orders of the local Meier for being under an Apartment building.

The second speculation is that they left Israel and went to live in Cashmere, India, where a Russian Archaeologist is claimed to have found the graves of Yeshua, Miriam and Yosef with the shield of David.

And the third speculation is the one of the Da-Vinci Code that the three went to Europe and settled down in the Southern part of France in a small village. And that Mary gave birth to a daughter, who eventually got married within the Merovingian nobility.

Whatever happened after Jesus said goodbye to his disciples, I don't endorse anything that has been speculated. My point is only to verify the truth about Jesus' marriage to Mary Magdalene. If that's true without the shadow of a doubt, we have only to be joyful that Jesus fulfilled also the commandment to get married and father children. (Genesis 2:24) Besides, a married man only adds to his honor for being so. Why deny Jesus the pleasure of being a man by completing himself by experiencing the love of a woman?

Okay, now you can throw the stones. Nu! Halo! Where is everybody? Halooo! Well, I think they all left. They must have realized thta they all have feelings too.
Well interesting and appealing and involved. Is any of it true? Probably not, who really knows but I do like how this makes Mary a more important part of the story!!!!
 

Tumah

Veteran Member
Hi Tumah....
I cannot figure how a Galilean peasant's bloodline could have connected back to Levite lineage, though.
I don't understand what you mean. Why not?

I always believed that 2000 priests (all of them) were required to be present at the three major feasts, and that 6000 levites (including 'extras' of some kind?) were required to be present as Temple guards, etc.
For the feasts yes. But that was only three times a year. The rest of the time they had to lived like everyone else, except a dew weeks a year when it was their family's turn to serve.
Mishmarot & Ma'amadot

But Joseph, a land-displaced peasant handworker..... a Levite? Could that be possible?
I really don't understand why this should sound odd to you. There were priests and levites living everywhere as far as I know, accepting tithes and priestly gifts.
 

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
I don't understand what you mean. Why not?
Well, if most Galileans did not convert until the 'time' of Babylon, then their bloodline could never have originated from the early times when the Levite 'tribe' (?) came about. ?? ..... sort of thing?


For the feasts yes. But that was only three times a year. The rest of the time they had to lived like everyone else, except a dew weeks a year when it was their family's turn to serve.
Mishmarot & Ma'amadot
I didn't know that.


I really don't understand why this should sound odd to you. There were priests and levites living everywhere as far as I know, accepting tithes and priestly gifts.
OK..... I must find out more about tithes and gifts.

Thankyou.....
 

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
I respect them for their moralistic religion, but you need to do some study on the Bible they use, to respect their religion

Yes....... so do I respect their morals.
I notice that you are a Presbyterian. I admit that I don't know how that differs from Baptist, or Lutheran or the many other hundreds of Creeds. This is because my research about Jesus ends with his execution, burial etc, and I have never studied Christianity. I am a Deist.

There are web sites that attract mostly Christians, and the arguments between them can be very heated. Indeed, the distancing between some denominations seems to be huge, as each believes thev other will fail to achieve salvation.

But most of all of them would not be fools, and I know many agnostics, atheists, and a few Muslims, Hindus and Sikhs who could never be so described.

All I could say to them, as I would say to you, is that I hope you are all right, even though that might not be possible. :)
 

Kenny

Face to face with my Father
Premium Member
All of which are implausible stories. They all resemble the sort of legends that would be produced by the process that the OP is using, making up stories that "must" be true but for which there is no evidence. The longer this process continues the less plausible the stories. Eventually Jesus gets deified in the imaginations of His followers followers grandchildren.
Despite the utter lack of any reasons to Believe except humans telling stories with murky agendas.
The oldest version of the oldest Gospel, Mark, doesn't even include the Resurrection.
Tom
And yet millions (along with myself), of which there are also many intellectuals of extreme capacity in critical thinking, don't agree with your position. Such is the free will of people.
 

Kenny

Face to face with my Father
Premium Member
Assuming it was known that Jesus' father was a Levite, he still would have only spent about a month a year actually at the Temple. There were many more priests an Levites than what the Temple needed dor the majority of the year. They worked on rotation.
Actually, he was from the tribe of Judah and not a Levite
 

omega2xx

Well-Known Member
Yes....... so do I respect their morals.
I notice that you are a Presbyterian. I admit that I don't know how that differs from Baptist, or Lutheran or the many other hundreds of Creeds. This is because my research about Jesus ends with his execution, burial etc, and I have never studied Christianity. I am a Deist.

There are web sites that attract mostly Christians, and the arguments between them can be very heated. Indeed, the distancing between some denominations seems to be huge, as each believes thev other will fail to achieve salvation.

But most of all of them would not be fools, and I know many agnostics, atheists, and a few Muslims, Hindus and Sikhs who could never be so described.

All I could say to them, as I would say to you, is that I hope you are all right, even though that might not be possible. :)

Let me say the main difference in Christianity is between liberal theology and conservative theology. In conservative theology, we differ on some minor points, but agree 100% on major doctrines---Jesus is God---He died for our sins---Salvation is by faith in Jesus alone, not work, the inspiration and inerrancy of Scripture, and a few more.

Liberal theology rejects the inspiration and inerrancy of the Bible and most of the what is attributed to what is recorded Jesus having done and or said. IMO a religion like that is worthless. While overall church attendance is declining, it is declining faster in liberal churches and conservative denomination are gaining in attendance. Why" IMO, it is because we have a more positive message.
 

Kenny

Face to face with my Father
Premium Member
Yes....... so do I respect their morals.
I notice that you are a Presbyterian. I admit that I don't know how that differs from Baptist, or Lutheran or the many other hundreds of Creeds. This is because my research about Jesus ends with his execution, burial etc, and I have never studied Christianity. I am a Deist.

There are web sites that attract mostly Christians, and the arguments between them can be very heated. Indeed, the distancing between some denominations seems to be huge, as each believes thev other will fail to achieve salvation.

But most of all of them would not be fools, and I know many agnostics, atheists, and a few Muslims, Hindus and Sikhs who could never be so described.

All I could say to them, as I would say to you, is that I hope you are all right, even though that might not be possible. :)
As one of the conservative side (non-denominational) - I liken it to a house that can have a 3 bedroom 2 bath split plan, all on one side, high ceiling, low ceiling etc. As omega said, it isn't the little differences that really amount to us (different house plans) -- as long as the foundation is square and solid (major doctrines).
 

omega2xx

Well-Known Member
As one of the conservative side (non-denominational) - I liken it to a house that can have a 3 bedroom 2 bath split plan, all on one side, high ceiling, low ceiling etc. As omega said, it isn't the little differences that really amount to us (different house plans) -- as long as the foundation is square and solid (major doctrines).

Good analogy. It reminds me of the parable about the man who built his house on the, not a rock and it withstood the storms of life and the man who built his house on sand and it fell when the storms of life came.

It is even more meaningful when we see Jesus personified as the Rock. My favorite on is I Cor 10:4 which is a reference to the water that came from from the rock Moses struck in the wilderness- they all drank the same spiritual drink, for they were drinking from a spiritual rock which followed them and the rock was Christ.

Then we read in Eph 5:26 that water is a metaphor for God's word and Jn 15:3 that we are already clean because of Jesus' word(singular).

There is a lot more rock theology, but that is for another time. Hopefully is to whet appetites.

O taste and see that the Lord is good---Psa 34:8a
 

oldbadger

Skanky Old Mongrel!
Let me say the main difference in Christianity is between liberal theology and conservative theology. In conservative theology, we differ on some minor points, but agree 100% on major doctrines---Jesus is God---He died for our sins---Salvation is by faith in Jesus alone, not work, the inspiration and inerrancy of Scripture, and a few more.

Liberal theology rejects the inspiration and inerrancy of the Bible and most of the what is attributed to what is recorded Jesus having done and or said. IMO a religion like that is worthless. While overall church attendance is declining, it is declining faster in liberal churches and conservative denomination are gaining in attendance. Why" IMO, it is because we have a more positive message.

Thankyou and @KenS for your basic explanations about liberal and conservative Christianity. That is the very first time in my life that I have heard of lib and con Christianity. Straight up.
I am not a Christian and I don't really know why I became interested in the life and mission of Jesus, I decided to read a couple of bibles (KHV and New English) back in 1994 as a reaearch project, and G-Mark just caught my attention in a way that I couldn't stop thinking about. That's why I study historical Jesus.
Sometimes you folks will debate furiously against me, but at other times you might find that I am debating (against such as the mythers) right alongside of you.
What can I say? :)
 

omega2xx

Well-Known Member
Thankyou and @KenS for your basic explanations about liberal and conservative Christianity. That is the very first time in my life that I have heard of lib and con Christianity. Straight up.
I am not a Christian and I don't really know why I became interested in the life and mission of Jesus, I decided to read a couple of bibles (KHV and New English) back in 1994 as a reaearch project, and G-Mark just caught my attention in a way that I couldn't stop thinking about. That's why I study historical Jesus.
Sometimes you folks will debate furiously against me, but at other times you might find that I am debating (against such as the mythers) right alongside of you.
What can I say? :)

I was in your shoes for 45 years. The main attitude in studying any subject, especially a religion, is to desire to know the truth. You seem to have that.

2 Chronicales 15:14-15 - Moreover they made a loud oath to the Lord with a loud voice, with shouting, , with trumpets and with horns. All Judah rejoiced considering the oath , for they had sworn with their whole heart and they had sought Him earnestly, and He let them find Him. So the Lord gave them rest on ever side.
 

Brickjectivity

wind and rain touch not this brain
Staff member
Premium Member
Just a question for my personal illumination. Wasn't Jesus from "...the house of Levi"; and wouldn't his teaching in the synagogue elevate him the Rabbi level?

Actually, he was from the tribe of Judah and not a Levite
Ken the question was actually raised by BSM1, not by Tumah who was actually commenting on what the implications would be.
 

BSM1

What? Me worry?
As one of the conservative side (non-denominational) - I liken it to a house that can have a 3 bedroom 2 bath split plan, all on one side, high ceiling, low ceiling etc. As omega said, it isn't the little differences that really amount to us (different house plans) -- as long as the foundation is square and solid (major doctrines).



Trouble is you can't (or shouldn't) do in the dining room what you do in the bathroom.
 
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