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What is wrong with those people who dress to look sexy?

sovietchild

sovietchild

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QuestioningMind said:
What is wrong with people who are afraid of a woman's sexuality? Does it scare you that you get a tingly feeling in your pants when you look at a woman and that you have no control over it? Are you so weak willed that you'd rather control women then learn how to control your own desires?
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In this scenario of yours, if a women is an ally she would help men to control them selves, and if she is an enemy to them she would probably want them to be destroyed.
 
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QuestioningMind

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sovietchild said:
In this scenario of yours, if a women is an ally she would help men to control them selves, and if she is an enemy to them she would probably want them to be destroyed.
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There's your fear speaking again, sovietchild. What exactly are you so very afraid of? Are you convinced you have no self-control and that if you see an attractive female that you fear you'll sexually assault her? Let me educate you. It isn't women who are your enemy, it's your own lack of control over your baser urges. Women don't need to stop sexually arousing you, you simply need to grow up and start controlling your own sexual urges. That's what adult civilized human beings do.
 
sovietchild

sovietchild

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QuestioningMind said:
There's your fear speaking again, sovietchild. What exactly are you so very afraid of? Are you convinced you have no self-control and that if you see an attractive female that you fear you'll sexually assault her? Let me educate you. It isn't women who are your enemy, it's your own lack of control over your baser urges. Women don't need to stop sexually arousing you, you simply need to grow up and start controlling your own sexual urges. That's what adult civilized human beings do.
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Or, some women needs to grow up and dress modest. Do you agree?
 
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QuestioningMind

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sovietchild said:
Or, some women needs to grow up and dress modest. Do you agree?
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No I don't. MY ability to control my baser urges and act in a mature decent manner has NOTHING to do with how immodestly a woman might dress. I'm capable of finding something highly desirable and still controlling myself so that I don't take it by force. That's why I can look at beautiful expensive jewelry on display and still keep myself from stealing it. Can't you do the same thing? Or do you think all shop keepers should keep their wares hidden from sight so you never have to learn how to control your greed? The same goes for women. They don't need to keep their sexuality hidden from view, you're the one who needs to grow up and learn how to control your lustful urges.
 
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Sakeenah

Sakeenah

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sovietchild said:
In this scenario of yours, if a women is an ally she would help men to control them selves, and if she is an enemy to them she would probably want them to be destroyed.
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I wear hijab to me it's as a outer manifestation of an inner commitment to worshipping Allah.I don't wear it to help men control themselves that's their own responsibility.
Men that lack self-control and respect for women often don't care if a woman is naked or fully covered.
 
psychoslice

psychoslice

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sovietchild said:
Is it some kind of competition? A league where they compete with one another. Is it a form of arrogance, because they want to promote a message “I am better then you”? Or, is it something else? Center of attention? Why would a wife leave the house in the sexy clothing? Sometimes I even see little children age 8 imitating those people, wearing tight yoga pants or short dresses. Some others even go to the gym with yoga pants and no underwear what so ever. What are they promoting? What are they trying to archive?

What is wrong with those people who dress to look erotic?
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You do seem to take a lot of notice of these people don't you ?.
 
psychoslice

psychoslice

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Sakeenah said:
I wear hijab to me it's as a outer manifestation of an inner commitment to worshipping Allah.I don't wear it to help men control themselves that's their own responsibility.
Men that lack self-control and respect for women often don't care if a woman is naked or fully covered.
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I don't know but it seems that Muslim men can't control themselves, is this true ?.
 
Sakeenah

Sakeenah

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psychoslice said:
I don't know but it seems that Muslim men can't control themselves, is this true ?.
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There are muslim men that can control themselves and others that can't. Just like there are non muslim men that can control themselves and others that can't.
 
psychoslice

psychoslice

Veteran Member
Sakeenah said:
There are muslim men that can control themselves and others that can't. Just like there are non muslim men that can control themselves and others that can't.
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Yes but it seems that its more powerful in the Muslim men, there has been a lot of rape where many Muslims have migrating to, such as Germany, what the hell is wrong with these people ?.
 
psychoslice

psychoslice

Veteran Member
I believe that Mohammad hated women, he feared them and despised them.

Muslim Women are Dirty Polluting Creatures

The Quran:



  • Sura (2:222) “They ask thee concerning women's courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean.”
  • Sura 4:43 “Muslims, draw not near unto prayer…(if) ye have touched women…then go to high clean soil and rub your face and your hands.” (Muslim women are pariahs and dirty).”
  • Sura (5:6) - "...if ye have had contact with women, and ye find not water, then go to clean, high ground and rub your faces and your hands with some of it."
Women are polluting. Men purify themselves following a casual contact with a woman.
 
Sakeenah

Sakeenah

Well-Known Member
psychoslice said:
Yes but it seems that its more powerful in the Muslim men, there has been a lot of rape where many Muslims have migrating to, such as Germany, what the hell is wrong with these people ?.
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"It seems" can't be really used as a fact to judge milions of muslim men.
 
Sunstone

Sunstone

De Diablo Del Fora
Premium Member
psychoslice said:
I believe that Mohammad hated women, he feared them and despised them.

Muslim Women are Dirty Polluting Creatures

The Quran:



  • Sura (2:222) “They ask thee concerning women's courses. Say: They are a hurt and a pollution: So keep away from women in their courses, and do not approach them until they are clean.”
  • Sura 4:43 “Muslims, draw not near unto prayer…(if) ye have touched women…then go to high clean soil and rub your face and your hands.” (Muslim women are pariahs and dirty).”
  • Sura (5:6) - "...if ye have had contact with women, and ye find not water, then go to clean, high ground and rub your faces and your hands with some of it."
Women are polluting. Men purify themselves following a casual contact with a woman.
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Lots of cultures have purity rituals associated with women's menstruation. Such rituals and surrounding beliefs that menstrual blood is impure are nothing specific to Islam. And, difficult as it may be for a modern Westerner to understand, such beliefs do not always or necessarily indicate that women are held in less esteem than men. Study Joseph Campbell. Study anthropology.
 
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