Women: Do you feel alienated, marginalized or excluded by the use of male terms to describe God?
Although I'm not a woman, I've always felt excluded by exclusionary language of any sort, and in reference to anyone or any group. There's always been a part of me that's felt if they are excluding one individual or group, what's to stop them from excluding me. And, yes, that is one reason I'm not keen on becoming a Christian, for instance. Or a Buddhist, for instance.
All: Generally speaking, what do you think of the move toward "gender-neutral" language?
I wish English made it much easier to be gender neutral. It is so cumbersome at times to be gender neutral that we can only make a nod towards it.
On a larger scale, The Grand Klutz is neither male nor female so far as I understand it. Indeed, The Great Folly that is Ultimate Reality in this universe is beyond our understanding except for what we might possibly speculate about Its Alleged Character from looking at nature.