So...I'm going in for an ultrasound

So apparently, I'm as healthy as a horse. My uterus is fine and no cysts to be seen.

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Yay! That is awesome! I'm really happy for you! I agree with the others... don't stress too much about it, some times it just takes a while. It would be a good idea to get your husband checked if you are still worried.

Honestly, the more you stress about it, the less likely you'll have a child. So stop concentrating on it so much. Your body's probably completely freaking out with all the stress and pressure you've put on yourself for this baby. Get your husband checked. What you should do is enjoy being with your hubby and the quiet times you have now. Cause once that baby comes, you'll never sleep again. So just be content, and the baby will come when it does.

I'm so glad it turned out to be okay, Becky. I hope you find out what the real problem is soon *big hugs*.

Thanks. I'm not real concerenced about getting pregnant right now. My purpose for the next little bit, is to make sure my body is healthy and can get pregnant. I haven't been a normal girl, since, um, February, and that is causing me a bit of worry.

I'm not too stressed about it, I think my body is just playing catch-up, and I hope it starts working soon. Thanks for all the prayers and support! I really do appreciate it.

Prayer Lamp Lit.

If you don't mind me saying, Becky, maybe having a baby isn't the best idea right now anyway. I know you're in school right now and studying to become a teacher, so perhaps you may want to wait until you've finished school anyway. Just a thought.

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Thanks. I'm not real concerenced about getting pregnant right now. My purpose for the next little bit, is to make sure my body is healthy and can get pregnant. I haven't been a normal girl, since, um, February, and that is causing me a bit of worry.

I'm not too stressed about it, I think my body is just playing catch-up, and I hope it starts working soon. Thanks for all the prayers and support! I really do appreciate it.

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I'm glad everything checked out okay, Becky. On the other hand, sometimes you want to hear that they found the problem and that it can be fixed. Hearing that everything's okay still doesn't answer your questions. Seriously, though, until you've been trying for at least a year, you really shouldn't get too awfully discouraged. Sometimes it just takes that long. My gosh, you could go another two or three years without getting pregant and then boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. Sometimes that's how it goes. I wish you really could stop feeling stressed out about it, because that can contribute to the problem. I know that's easier said than done, though. It's pretty difficult to do.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 contains some of my favorite verses in the Bible:

To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace.

Maybe it just isn't your time to get pregnant. When it fulfills God's purpose for you to have a child, you'll have one. That time will definitely come, because He knows what an awesome mother you'll be. I'm sure He has a whole bunch of special little spirits reserved especially for you. We have no way of knowing why it is, but sometimes we just have to accept that He has a different timetable than we do. It will happen, Becky. Have faith and trust that it will be when the time is best.

I know. I know. Everybody tells me this. One thing I don't think I've said enough, I'm not stressed. Like I told Ashley, I'm about as stressed as a monkey on nitrous oxide (that's laughing gas, right?).

We decided to stop 'trying' so-to-speak, about 2 months ago. The every other day thing was getting to us both. We just do it whenever now.

My schooling won't be a problem. After this semester, I have 3 semesters left, and I've finished all my GE's and all my other classes except the actualy lab preschool classes.

I do appreciate everyone's concern, I really do. But, don't worry, I'll be okay. Just been an emotional rollar coaster this year (sorry for everyone who has to witness that).

I think my body has something wrong with it, and we will eventually frigure out whats wrong, I'd just like to know sooner then later (but then again, I'm impatient).

I'm going back into the doctor next week for definte results on my blood tests. We'll see what happens then. I know everyone says to get the Mister tested, but we are waiting on that. If nothing happens by the end of the year(and everything has been fixed with me), we are going in for him; we've already discussed this and figured it would be the best.

If I get pregnant now, that's okay, if I get pregnant next year that's okay, I'm just worried about what my body is doing to itself without my knowledge that may cause me not to have children.

Anywho. This whole thing probably sounded horrible uncouth and rude and mean, and I'm sorry.

Good luck becky!

I'm sorry if it seemed as if it took me a while to post, hw is taking over my free time and i didn't know what to say

Anywho. This whole thing probably sounded horrible uncouth and rude and mean, and I'm sorry.

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Far from it... no need to apologize. I'm happy you aren't stressing over it.

Hi Becky, Glad to hear all is clear in your ultrasound. It is a relief to know that you are OK in that respect, but as Kat says it would also be nice to find out what it is you can do. I would like to say again, and forgive me if I am annoying you, but Comet is right that to have a sperm test done is very easy and not very expensive, and well worth the effort to rule that out. When it is a 'guy thing' it can be a lot easier to solve, maybe even just a matter of wearing different underwear (temperature has a big effect on sperm count).

Also, please know that this is not something that is your 'fault' or something that you can control with your feelings. So many people told me that I was just too stressed (and I also was not stressed) and needed to just relax and let it happen. After a while that started to feel like I was somehow to blame, and that did make me stressed! So anyway, this will happen for you when and how it is meant to, and in the meantime carry on checking out the physical side of things.

God bless,
Laurie

Thanks Laurie and Leonne.

I just want my body to be healthy.