I was going to put this in my own words but, various rabbis do it much better than I could.
Simply put, for Torah observant Jews (Orthodox) who believe in the 3,000 year old Traditions of being Jewish, "The Chosen People" does not mean what people commonly take it to mean.
One big part is that our Forefathers, specifically Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, Chose G-d.
And, that the Jewish People at Mt. Sinai also Chose G-d.
It was a mutual agreement between G-d and the Jews.
To wit:
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The Jewish nation is often referred to as "the Chosen People."
Many people (including Jews) are uncomfortable with this idea. They perceive the concept of a "Chosen People" as racist and mindful of the Nazi concept of a supreme "Aryan" nation. It appears to contradict the accepted Western ideal of all people being equal before God.
Is the Jewish concept of choseness racist?
When the Torah refers to the Jewish people as "chosen," it is not in any way asserting that Jews are racially superior. Americans, Asians, Russians, Europeans, Scandinavians and Ethiopians -- and moreover Caucasians, blacks and Orientals -- are all part of the Jewish people. It is impossible to define choseness as anything related to race, since Jews are racially diverse.
Yet while the term "Chosen People" (
Am Nivchar - Deut. 7:6) does not mean racially superior, choseness does imply a special uniqueness.
What is this uniqueness?
Historically, it goes back to Abraham. Abraham lived in a world steeped in idolatry, which he concluded was contradicted by the reality of design in nature.
So Abraham came to a belief in God, and took upon himself the mission of teaching others of the monotheistic ideal. Abraham was even willing to suffer persecution for his beliefs. After years of enormous effort, dedication and a willingness to accept the responsibility to be God's representative in this world, God chose Abraham and his descendents to be the teachers of this monotheistic message.
In other words it is not so much that God chose the Jews; it is more accurate that the Jews (through Abraham) chose God.
Choseness was not part of God's "original plan." Initially all of humanity was to serve the role of God's messengers, but after the fall of Adam, humanity lost that privilege, and it was open for grabs. Only Abraham chose to take the mantel. If others would have (and they were offered the choice), they too would have joined in this special covenant which was sealed upon the giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai.
If a privilege is offered to everyone willing to pay the necessary price, nobody can protest that those willing to make the extra effort are being shown favoritism. For example: It is reasonable that an employee who agrees to work overtime, attend training seminars, and manage special projects, should be entitled to a performance bonus -- particularly if each employee was given the same opportunity.
The essence of being chosen means responsibility. It is a responsibility to change the world -- not by converting everyone to Judaism, but by living as a model community upheld by ethics, morals and beliefs of one God. In that way, we can influence the rest of mankind, a "light unto the nations" (Isaiah 42:6).
Judaism is Universal
Further, Judaism is not exclusionary. A human being need not to be Jewish to reach a high spiritual level. Enoch "walked with God," and Noah had quite a high level of relationship, though neither were Jewish. Our tradition is that all of the 70 nations must function together and play an integral part in that "being" called humanity.
According to Judaism (Talmud - Sanhedrin 58b), any person can achieve a place in the World to Come by faithfully observing the seven basic laws of humanity. These seven laws are named the "Laws of Noah," since all humans are descended from Noah:
1) Do not murder.
2) Do not steal.
3) Do not worship false gods.
4) Do not be sexually immoral.
5) Do not eat the limb of an animal before it is killed.
6) Do not curse God.
7) Set up courts and bring offenders to justice.
Torah is for all humanity. King Solomon built the Holy Temple in Jerusalem, he specifically asked God to heed the prayer of non-Jews who come to the Temple (1-Kings 8:41-43). The Temple was the universal center of spirituality, which the prophet Isaiah referred to as a "house of prayer for all nations." Non-Jews were welcome to bring offerings to the Temple as well. In fact, the service in the Holy Temple during the week of Sukkot featured a total of 70 bull offerings, corresponding to each of the 70 nations of the world. In fact, the Talmud says that if the Romans would have realized how much they were benefiting from the Temple, they never would have destroyed it!
Most other religions say that non-believers are condemned to eternal damnation. Even the calendar systems of Christianity and Islam reflect an exclusionary philosophy; each begins with the birth of their respective religion. The Jewish calendar, on the other hand, begins with the creation of Adam, the first man, teaching us the intrinsic value of every human, even though the Jewish religion was not yet born.
For this reason, Jews do not proselytize in search of converts. One can still merit a place in heaven, no conversion necessary.
Conversion
An important component of Judaism's non-exclusionary approach is that any person -- regardless of national or racial background -- can choose to accept the Torah and become part of the Jewish nation. Indeed, some of the greatest names in Jewish history - Ruth, the ancestor of King David, and Onkelos the Talmudic Sage -- were converts to Judaism.
According to the Code of Jewish Law (the "Shulchan Aruch"), there are three requirements for a valid conversion (paralleling the Jewish experience at Mount Sinai):
1)
Mitzvot - The convert must believe in God and the divinity of the Torah, as well as accept to observe all 613 mitzvot (commandments) of the Torah. This includes observance of Shabbat, Kashrut, etc., as detailed in the Code of Jewish Law, the authoritative source for Jewish observance.
2)
Milah - Male converts must undergo circumcision by a qualified "Mohel."
3)
Mikveh - All converts must immerse in the Mikveh, a ritual bath linked to a reservoir of rain water.
All of the above must be done before a halachically-valid rabbinical court of three Jewish men who themselves believe in God, accept the divinity of the Torah, and observe the mitzvot."
And:
By Rabbi Aron Tendler
Chosen and Tough
"Parshas Re'eh begins the main legal text of Sefer Divarim. Containing 55 Mitzvos, Re'eh's focus is on those Mitzvos which set Israel apart from all other nations and lifestyles. Although all Mitzvos make us "different", these are the commandments such as Kashrus and the Yomim Tovim which publicly declare our status as "Am Livadad Yishkon - A nation that dwells alone".
The public persona of a nation, or for that matter, any organization, is a product of public perception, rather than substance. Billions of dollars are spent on creating an image, selling a dream, advertising, and other forms of P.R.; and success is measured by how visible you are along the information highway. More often than we are willing to admit, we are fooled into buying unnecessary, frivolous, and non-substantive products, because of effective selling strategies.
The Torah in Parshas Vaeschanan promised us that our public image would be that of a "wise and understanding nation". It promised us that so long as we keep G-d's mitzvos we will be successful in all our endeavors, and respected by all the other nations. It promised that our public persona would be founded upon substance and quality, not slick advertising and suggestion.
In preparation for the Bnai Yisroel entering Eretz Yisroel, Moshe forewarned them against being influenced by the idolatrous practices and life styles of the Seven Nations. He commanded them to, "...tear down their altars, break up their sacred pillars, burn their Asherah trees, and chop down the statues of their gods, obliterating their names from that place". (12:3)
Moshe did not propose compromises or political niceties. Moshe didn't discuss living in peace with other ideologies or religions. Moshe detailed in clear and unequivocal terms their obligation to clean up the spiritual environment. The nation that was destined to "dwell alone" required a homeland that was "alone".
Moshe did not believe that we could withstand the influences of a foreign society determined to assimilate us into its values. As history has tragically proven, and as the present continues to support, Moshe was unerringly accurate in his assessment, and fears. Had the Bnai Yisroel listened to Moshe and removed all foreign practices, their subsequent place in history would have been of messianic proportions. We would have been acknowledged as a "wise and understanding nation", and respected for "dwelling alone". The spiritual product we are intended to sell as the Chosen People would have become a marketing success.
In 14:2 of Re'eh, Hashem proclaimed us as the "Chosen People", a designation which we need to understand. Many have mistakenly cloaked themselves with an air of intellectual superiority and religious elitism that unfortunately leads to selfishness and the negation of responsibility. Individuals or nations that see themselves as superior by virtue of genetics or ancestry, rather than personal merit and behavior, will view all others as inferior to them because of the absence of the same. Regardless of the others personal merits and accomplishments, if he doesn't have the same background as myself he is less than I am.
Taken to its extreme, history has shown the extent that superiority will dehumanize the "man who was created in G-d's image". If superiority is solely the result of ancestry then Darwin's Survival of the Fittest is the inevitable destruction of all those deemed as potentially dangerous to the existence of the superior species.
Making difficult decisions that hurt today, but are of benefit tomorrow, is the meaning of wisdom and maturity. In all areas of life such decisions and sacrifices are demanded. None of us, in the hopes of prolonging our lives or that of our loved ones, would stay the surgeon's scalpel bust because the incision hurts today. Misplaced mercy and humility has been the cause of great damage in individual, family, communal, and national destinies.
The Mishnah in Pirkei Avos 2:9 defines the straight path that a person should follow. Rabbi Shimon says, "one who makes decisions today with concern for tomorrow". The same is true for organizations and nations. The concerns for the here and now often misguide us in relation to the realities of tomorrow. I have little doubt that most of Sefer Divarim, if said today, would be deemed "politically incorrect". Yet, had the Bnai Yisroel heeded Moshe's fundamentalist demands and removed all foreign practices and ideologies, the world would have gained immeasurably.
Being the Chosen People carries with it a responsibility. We are to be the nation who is most responsible to Hashem and His purpose in creating all of mankind, not just the Jew. To do so we must be perceived by the rest of the world as different by virtue of our behavior, actions, and humility. Even among our own we attempt to equalize all, including the Ger - convert, by acknowledging our shared ancestry as the "children of Avraham and Sarah". As Yishayuhu declared, (Haftoras Ekev)"Look to Avraham your father and to Sarah who gave birth to you".
Individual Yichus is only as good as the individual's merits, actions, and values. It was Avraham and Sarah who, as the only Jews alive, devoted the majority of their time teaching the non-Jew about G-d and His purpose for creating the universe. Of course, we are obligated to protect our uniqueness from the assimilative values of society. In so doing, we must be fearless and at times ruthless. Idolatry and paganism, in whatever sophisticated form they appear, demean mankind to the level of animal by declaring the animal in man as divine. On the other hand, adherence to Torah and mitzvos directs and elevates the animal in man, endowing it with dignity, humility, and G-dliness."