It is rather sad when a Christian thinks his or her interpretation is the right one and everyone else is wrong. In reality, only God would know who has it 100% correct- and I am willing to bet that no one actually does. God does not expect us to be perfect- I believe that God has mercy. I believe that God wants us to be as good as we can be, even if we fail sometimes.
I'm so sorry I make you sad. Is me making you sad all my fault?
If "no one actually does" know the truth then it appears no one is listening to the helper. Does the helper sent by The Son know what the words mean?