Ronald said:
1) Nu. 31:16 councel of Balaam
Moses was misled by god about Balaams council and if you read the story you know that.
Read all of Numbers 22 to see this story unfold.
Balaam absolutely refused to meet with Balak because god told him not to then they sent for him again and god specifically told him to go "and wait for his word".
When Balaam went with Balaks messengers god got mad at him, after he specifically told him to go.
He sent an angel to kill Balaam for going but Balaams donkey saved his life
Balaam did EXACTLY everything god told him even when his orders directly contradicted themselves.
Balaam was a good Jew trying to do the right thing stuck between a despicable king and a jealous confusing god.
2) Nu.25:16-17 Smite them (Conspiricy that they conspired against you in the matter of Peor.)
Yes this is morality for you...god tells Balaam to go to Balak(at Peor) and then accuses him (To Moses) of conspiring against the Israelites for being there even though he still refused to curse the Israelites as Balak angrily demanded and blessed them instead (as god instructed him to do)
3) Not my business to justify the Acts of Hashem.
I can understand that, the acts of this god are too confusing to even follow let alone justify.
I could refer you to the Chumash, the Rabbi's make it their business to look for meaning in all the Word of God. But you have made it clear you want only scripture.
These are my answers.
I can find "meaning" in the word of god myself thanks.
So in conclusion, if you read the entire story the unethical behaviour of god does not lie in the killing of innocents alone.
God himself contrived this false conspiracy against the Israelites so that Moses would feel justified in destroying them.
The destruction of Midia was not merely gods answer to a problem it was gods answer to a problem he intentionally created so he could destroy Midia.
This is essentially the same story of Moses being sent to petition the Pharaoh for the release of the Israelites.
God tells his messenger to do something then puts obstacles in his path and makes it virtually impossible for him to succeed.
Both stories seem to have no other purpose than enabling god to kill innocents.