Good post Ceridwen; I agree. The points you make about polygamy or polyandry are, from my point of view, to be seen in the light of the social effect, and how such a system would influence the family unit.
As I related earlier, having heard people in polygamous relationships interviewed, ther greatest problem seemed to be with jealousy between the wives, and the feelings of a need for each one to prove herself 'better' than the next.
The only fully satisfied member of the family (hardly unsurprisingly) was the husband, although he did have one comment to make; "Imagine being nagged at by many wives instead of just the one".........my heart bled for him.
I wonder though, if there have ever been societies where one wife has had more than one husband......well, what is good for the Gander...........
I agree with you about the points you make about incest; the subject is one which evokes many unpleasant emotions....and the fact that" in some states, kids can be married as young as 10 with parental consent--some states don't even have limits, just so they can legally sexually abuse them? " is one that I hadn't even thought of - it is completely alien to us here; I don't even want 'to go there'.
As I related earlier, having heard people in polygamous relationships interviewed, ther greatest problem seemed to be with jealousy between the wives, and the feelings of a need for each one to prove herself 'better' than the next.
The only fully satisfied member of the family (hardly unsurprisingly) was the husband, although he did have one comment to make; "Imagine being nagged at by many wives instead of just the one".........my heart bled for him.
I wonder though, if there have ever been societies where one wife has had more than one husband......well, what is good for the Gander...........
I agree with you about the points you make about incest; the subject is one which evokes many unpleasant emotions....and the fact that" in some states, kids can be married as young as 10 with parental consent--some states don't even have limits, just so they can legally sexually abuse them? " is one that I hadn't even thought of - it is completely alien to us here; I don't even want 'to go there'.