This thread and the previous argument from whence it sprang demonstrate perfectly why I rarely refer to myself as an 'atheist'. And if I do refer to myself in such a way, it is generally because I'm engaged in a 'good faith' debate with someone whom I know is going to be open, honest and sincere in their conversation.
Atheism is not a belief. It is not a belief that gods don't exist. It can be, but it doesn't have to be.
I consider myself an atheist. I didn't before joining RF. I too was confused initially on the definition of atheism and what such a position entails. I thought too that it required one to take a certain stance on the position that gods do not exist--to state as much with a surety of belief.
I was wrong. I admit that openly on a public forum. Yes, lap it up, suckers, while you can because I don't make such admissions regularly. After reading some of the posts in this thread, it seems some others have a similar aversion to admitting they are wrong or mistaken.
However, if I am still wrong in my understanding of the word "atheism" and what it specifically means, then fine, I will again admit I'm wrong about my understanding of the definition of the word. I suppose those of us who hold no belief in gods because we have yet to be presented a model that satisfies our requirements of believability, we must start referring to ourselves as something altogether different.
But it doesn't seem like that is the real point of contention. It seems more like there are those trying to attribute to others beliefs they don't hold. I have read many of the posts on this thread, and it just seems like we have a few theists who want to create the proverbial 'strawman' by attributing to atheists, literally, a belief they do not have. The agnostic in me says there is really no way to prove definitively whether gods do or do not exist, and it appears some theists want to be able to claim that all atheists hold untenable positions just like they themselves do.
One can certainly hold the position that gods might exist but no one has presented them an acceptible model that seems plausible. That is my position and I believe it makes me an atheist. If you disagree with my use of the term "atheism", fine. I will not argue with you because language is a constantly evolving thing and perhaps the meaning of the word has changed ... again. However, if you disagree with me because you believe I must either be for or against something, that by denying one or more god models I am staking a position that none at all exist, then I say you are dead wrong.