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Religion catering for all?

Malus 12:9

Temporarily Deactive.
How would one find the religion best suited for them? I feel like, perhaps I should believe in something. Perhaps there is a reason, maybe not. I feel, like empty or something.

Christianity and Islam (the two most mentioned here) are DEFINITLY not for me. Well, my point is, is there a religion out there for everyone? Or is religion just not for some people?
 

Aqualung

Tasty
jewscout said:
i think it takes alot of time, study and personal reflection to figure that one out.
Yeah. Also, I think you'll have a lot more satisfaction if you conform yourself to a religion, instead of picking the one that you don't have to work at all to do. That way, you'll have the personal satisfaction of changing yourself for something greater than yourself
 

Dayv

Member
conform to a religion? no way, you've got to find what is in your heart. All religions were created by one person or another, why do those original founders get to be the ones we conform to? Don't change, just try to understand yourself better. Sure we all have our faults, and you have to find those out and work with them to better yourself, but it's up to you what is fault and what is gift, not some religion.
Don't change because of some pompous, know-it-all religion, or anything else for that matter. Don't ever change, beauty is greatest when it is most natural, and besides, you'll never really change yourself, you'll just twist yourself to fit something that isn't you, and create a lot of psychological problems in the process.
 

Darkdale

World Leader Pretend
Malus01 said:
Christianity and Islam (the two most mentioned here) are DEFINITLY not for me. Well, my point is, is there a religion out there for everyone? Or is religion just not for some people?

there are 1000s of religions. :) just research them and see if any of them feel right.
 

CaptainXeroid

Following Christ
One 2 part question I would ask is 'Were you raised in a particular faith?' and 'Would you consider re-examining that faith?'

I have know many people who were, but they reject it during their teenage years, and then return to it later in life when they realize they weren't so much rejecting the faith itself as they were rebelling against what they felt their parents and society were 'making' them believe.

If you weren't, then just ignore me. :D Like JewScout and Maize said, it takes personal reflection and work to choose a religion that suits your beliefs and to follow it. I wish you success with your journey. :)
 

Green Gaia

Veteran Member
I think you should find what speaks to you, what calls you. But no matter what you choose or what chooses you, it will be work. But it's a good work.
 

jonny

Well-Known Member
Malus01 said:
How would one find the religion best suited for them? I feel like, perhaps I should believe in something. Perhaps there is a reason, maybe not. I feel, like empty or something.

Christianity and Islam (the two most mentioned here) are DEFINITLY not for me. Well, my point is, is there a religion out there for everyone? Or is religion just not for some people?
You could always start your own. I hear it can be a good business. :)

Seriously, I have never been in your situation so I have no idea how it feels. I would recommend speaking with close friends who have similar beliefs, ideas and values as you and starting learning about their religions.
 

joeboonda

Well-Known Member
Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life, no man comes to the Father but by ME. You must find THE truth. There is the truth, and anything else is not. You must find the truth or you are lost.
 

jewscout

Religious Zionist
Dayv said:
conform to a religion? no way, you've got to find what is in your heart. All religions were created by one person or another, why do those original founders get to be the ones we conform to? Don't change, just try to understand yourself better. Sure we all have our faults, and you have to find those out and work with them to better yourself, but it's up to you what is fault and what is gift, not some religion.
Don't change because of some pompous, know-it-all religion, or anything else for that matter. Don't ever change, beauty is greatest when it is most natural, and besides, you'll never really change yourself, you'll just twist yourself to fit something that isn't you, and create a lot of psychological problems in the process.
change is inevitable Dayv and people change for different reasons...

why can't religion be a medium for that change?
 

jonny

Well-Known Member
Dayv said:
conform to a religion? no way, you've got to find what is in your heart. All religions were created by one person or another, why do those original founders get to be the ones we conform to? Don't change, just try to understand yourself better. Sure we all have our faults, and you have to find those out and work with them to better yourself, but it's up to you what is fault and what is gift, not some religion.
Don't change because of some pompous, know-it-all religion, or anything else for that matter. Don't ever change, beauty is greatest when it is most natural, and besides, you'll never really change yourself, you'll just twist yourself to fit something that isn't you, and create a lot of psychological problems in the process.
I personally don't see any point to religion if it doesn't stretch you and encourage you to become a better person.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber
Christianity and Islam (the two most mentioned here) are DEFINITLY not for me. Well, my point is, is there a religion out there for everyone? Or is religion just not for some people?
I agree that you must go with what you feel is right. When I was Christian, I was never truly happy. I had to constantly remind myself I should be happy, because I have repented of my sins, have been baptized, and I am going to Heaven when I die. I found no true happyness with Christianity. If searched for a religion until I found one I was drawn to on an internal level. I suggest you search aswell. It is also possible an athiestic life would be better for you. Not that religion "wont work" for you, just an athiest life can be the life lessons your supposed to learn in this life.
 

Malus 12:9

Temporarily Deactive.
But see dudes there are things that I don't want to give up for a specific religion's sakes. like do I have to give up looking at porn if I go to christianity or islamic. :(
 

Aqualung

Tasty
Malus01 said:
But see dudes there are things that I don't want to give up for a specific religion's sakes. like do I have to give up looking at porn if I go to christianity or islamic. :(
Well, I would say yes for christianity. So maybe you want something that doesn't require much of you. But I guaruntee you'll feel better if you make a bigger change for a religion than if just picked the one that worked best with how you already are.
 

Malus 12:9

Temporarily Deactive.
See I think that's why I have trouble finding the right one. I don't know if, when I go to that religion,and change for it, that it will be the right way in the end. I am afraid of changing, I think, because I am afraid I will go the wrong way. I know Christianity is not for me because of the above reason, and also because Christianity is confusing. I don't think any of the mainstream religions is a right way for me and when I join I would only be learning and I may say the wrong thing here and the JS would be skitzing up.

I am serious about this whole thread, though. I feel so bare coming to RF with limited knowledge on the topics, lol ;)
 

Aqualung

Tasty
Malus01 said:
See I think that's why I have trouble finding the right one. I don't know if, when I go to that religion,and change for it, that it will be the right way in the end. I am afraid of changing, I think, because I am afraid I will go the wrong way. I know Christianity is not for me because of the above reason, and also because Christianity is confusing. I don't think any of the mainstream religions is a right way for me and when I join I would only be learning and I may say the wrong thing here and the JS would be skitzing up.

I am serious about this whole thread, though. I feel so bare coming to RF with limited knowledge on the topics, lol ;)
Well, if christianity is not the thing for you, you're going the wrong way anyway. :biglaugh: YOu do have a point, though. Just start researching a bunch of different ones, and find the one that you think is true. and then change for it.
 

Steve

Active Member
Malus01 said:
I feel, like empty or something.
Hi Malus01,
If you belive that you just choose a religion and it becomes "right", then it ultimatly means nothing. Not every religion is true, by definition truth excludes otherwise nothing is really true because nothing is false. You have to decide what it is you want in life and if you really want to search and find the truth or instead just want a substitute where you dont have to change much and it can act as a 'filler' for the emptiness you feel, you only get one go at life, just one. At some point you have to sit down and ask yourself what your priorites are.

Malus01 said:
But see dudes there are things that I don't want to give up for a specific religion's sakes. like do I have to give up looking at porn if I go to christianity or islamic. :(
Malus01 said:
See I think that's why I have trouble finding the right one. I don't know if, when I go to that religion,and change for it, that it will be the right way in the end. I am afraid of changing, I think, because I am afraid I will go the wrong way. I know Christianity is not for me because of the above reason, and also because Christianity is confusing. I don't think any of the mainstream religions is a right way for me and when I join I would only be learning and I may say the wrong thing here and the JS would be skitzing up.

I am serious about this whole thread, though. I feel so bare coming to RF with limited knowledge on the topics, lol ;)
If you conduct your search with the criteria that if you have to give up porn then that religion isnt for you, id suggest your priorites are very mixed up.
Suppose its true that Jesus was who he claimed to be and loved you so much that he paid for your sins on the cross so you dont have to in hell. Would it be wise to refuse to even consider his offer because you didnt want to change?
Some versus to consider.
Seek the LORD while he may be found; call on him while he is near. Let the wicked forsake his way and the evil man his thoughts. Let him turn to the LORD, and he will have mercy on him, and to our God, for he will freely pardon. Isaiah 55:6-7

Blessed is he whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered. Blessed is the man whose sin the LORD does not count against him and in whose spirit is no deceit. Psalm 32:1-2

Surely he took up our infirmities and carried our sorrows, yet we considered him stricken by God, smitten by him, and afflicted. But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was upon him, and by his wounds we are healed. We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to his own way; and the LORD has laid on him the iniquity of us all. Isaiah 53:4-6

This righteousness from God comes through faith in Jesus Christ to all who believe. There is no difference, for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented him as a sacrifice of atonement, through faith in his blood. He did this to demonstrate his justice, because in his forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished- he did it to demonstrate his justice at the present time, so as to be just and the one who justifies those who have faith in Jesus. Romans 3:22-26
 

Dayv

Member
sheesh, malus01, don't listen to all this 'jesus is the only way' and 'the bible says this' stuff. Christianity is notorious for controling aspects of peoples lives it really shouldn't get into. If it doesn't hurt anyone or yourself, I see nothing wrong with it, and otherwise there is little reason to constrict your freedoms. I hold to my view of not conforming, especially by some religion's standards, which are only someone elses views on how you should be. What about how YOU want to be? What about how you ARE? Don't change to fit someone elses ignorance, be the beauty that you are. Don't listen to me or anyone else, just listen to your own heart and find your own path.
 
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