Draka said:
With all these threads involving sex and such here recently I thought I'd pose a question that has always bothered me. Why the double standard when it comes to men and women's sex lives? Why does society find it acceptable that a man can sleep with a certain amount of women and yet if a woman sleeps with the same number she is called crude names? If a man has sex with several women in any amount of time then he is "the man" and if a woman does then she is, and pardon my language, a "****". You can say that you don't see it this way, and I don't either, but it is unfortunately a common thought in society. Where does this thinking come from?
Why the double standard when it comes to men and women's sex lives?
I did'nt know there was one.
As far as I am concerned, and I know I speak on behalf of many men, there is no double standard.
The only time this occurs is when men, who wish to impress, and need an ego-boost boast of conquests that are purely fictional.
As far as I am aware, there is very little difference between a man who 'sleeps around' and a woman who does the same. Where does this come from ?
Perhaps the historically accepted view that women were far more conscious of the emotional side of sex, whereas men were the instigators of the physical aspect. Therefore a woman who showed herself to be interested in the physical aspect was seen as 'wanton'. Old culture.............