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It IS easy until you think. The solution: go with your gut. Getting tested is a good idea thoughfromthe heart said:That is NOT an easy thing to answer...you always think you know how you'll handle something like that but you really don't till it happens...it's made all the worse when kids are involved. If there are problems within a relationship it's never good to try to settle it outside the relationship with someone else...that just makes the cheater a dirty dog!
If the relationship was to stand a chance after that I would insist on an HIV test prior to even thinking about moving on. Then it'd have to be a what's wrong with the picture game till the problem was solved on one level or another. I feel you can get beyond something like that but some don't feel they will ever trust again...The main thing is if you are the one being cheated on don't take it personal because it wasn't your fault no matter what the cheater says.
Hope she knows you feel this way...ROFLjgallandt said:I'd get a Mexican divorce. Drink a bottle of Tequila and shoot her. J/K
It takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it, especially if you use a chainsaw.kreeden said:Been there myself . And it isn't easy . A few things to think about ...
First off , it really doesn't matter if your other loves you . What matters is that you love your other .
Second , it is never the same again . That trust can not be rebiuld , IMHO . We often try , and perhaps sometimes it can be , but I have never seen it .
I agree . As I said , we often try , but I have never seen it happen .Zephyr said:It takes years to build up trust and only seconds to destroy it, especially if you use a chainsaw.