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No, he most likely would not.I realize I'm not LDS, but I wonder if I could interject a thought? Would your bishop offer the same advise if the young man/woman was entering military service with a very good chance of being in a combat zone ater the initial twenty-four weeks of basic and advanced training?
Just a thought I had. Please feel free to ignore my question, but please don't abuse me for asking it it. Thanks.
Edward
In a word, no. I don't think anything would be accomplished by breaking up. If they're truly in love, it would be doing a disservice to both of them. If he's going to be distracted by thoughts of a girl, it might as well be thoughts of the life they're going to have together as thoughts over what might have been if he'd just stayed home from his mission.This topic has come up at MADB and I wanted to know the opinions LDS members here on the issue. Do you agree with a Bishop telling young men who are preparing to go on a mission to break up with their current girlfriends?
He probably wouldn't, Edward, but the difference is that Mormon missionaries can't even phone their girlfriends for the two year period of their missions. Servicemen can.I realize I'm not LDS, but I wonder if I could interject a thought? Would your bishop offer the same advise if the young man/woman was entering military service with a very good chance of being in a combat zone ater the initial twenty-four weeks of basic and advanced training?
Just a thought I had. Please feel free to ignore my question, but please don't abuse me for asking it it. Thanks.
Edward
The missionary handbook rules say no writing to anyone but family members anyway
Uh... Where does it address this topic in the Book of Mormon?How could you not agree with a bishop!!Re-Read the book of mormon!
I don't agreeThis topic has come up at MADB and I wanted to know the opinions LDS members here on the issue. Do you agree with a Bishop telling young men who are preparing to go on a mission to break up with their current girlfriends?
Do you want to elaborate?I don't agree
Welcome, Arkholt! Good answer!Number one: Bishops are not infallible. This is not a doctrine of the Church. It isn't in the Book of Mormon any more than Papal Infallibility is in the Bible. Disagreeing with a bishop will not send you to Hell. Prayer is always required to verify what your bishop is advising.
Number two: every situation is different. The bishop himself ought to know and understand the young man he is interviewing before he gives any advice on this matter. Is the girlfriend going to be a distraction? In many cases, there is no distraction at all. That is dependent on the dedication of the missionary. In many other cases, distractions are very apparent. Secondly, will the girl really wait? I mean REALLY wait. Most say the will, but many don't. My mom waited for my dad. Many of my friends have sent Dear Johns after becoming impatient. Two years is a long time. Are they really willing to wait that long?
These are all questions that need to be asked and considered, especially between the couple. There is no black and white answer.