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Deathwish: not using condoms
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whereismynotecard
Treasure Hunter
Wouldn't it be a lifewish?
Green Gaia
Veteran Member
I don't know about deathwish, but it's definitely very stupid.
whereismynotecard
Treasure Hunter
I've never used a condom.
I agree that it could be dangerous, if you don't know the partner well. That is why I believe in magnanimous sex lives. 
Storm
ThrUU the Looking Glass
I was rather reckless in my teens. Mostly due to rampaging PTSD leading to self-destructive behavior, but that was unconscious. The fact that my relevant sex ed consisted of "condoms don't work" also can't be forgotten.
Green Gaia
Veteran Member
Magnanimous AND monogamous!I agree that it could be dangerous, if you don't know the partner well. That is why I believe in magnanimous sex lives.
Green Gaia
Veteran Member
I thought you were being witty.God, I feel stupid.
Nanda
Polyanna
We have a term in the poly community (which I think is kinda gross, but I didn't make it up) called "fluid bonding" (told you). The idea is that everyone within the poly group is tested, and if everyone is clean, there's no need for condoms. Of course, it should go without saying that any sex outside the group requires condoms. With polyamory, safe sex is a must, because you're not just putting yourself at risk.
Buttercup
Veteran Member
True. Unfortunately sex is often taken with a shot or two of alcohol and common sense if often inebriated.
black_jesus
New Member
The only question is I get to pick my own group ...lol
Nanda
Polyanna
It requires a level of emotional maturity that, your post indicates to me, you're unprepared for.
black_jesus
New Member
It requires a level of emotional maturity that, your post indicates to me, you're unprepared for.
lol.... yeah OK Im good with all my emotions ...I was just asking if you get to pick your own group or how that process works if not
Buttons*
Glass half Panda'd
It depends on the situation.
Is it a deathwish for people who have multiple partners, don't get tested regularly, and tend to sleep with sketchy people? Yes!
Is it a deathwish for people who have one partner, have been tested, and don't sleep or swap spit with anyone else? No, I don't think so.
Nanda
Polyanna
Yes, everyone has to agree and trust the members included.
