A good question. Certainly it has to be some combination of nature and nurture, though as you might guess I lean far more toward the nurture spectrum than nature though I fully grant that nature has its place, much as its easy to overestimate because (I believe) it lets parents off the hook...
I dont agree with you here not in its entirety at least. I believe children are created perfect at their cores, and if we provide them with what they need we dont have to teach them how to behave at all. In fact, wed do far better to learn from them if we could really listen to what...
Youve made the point several times that you believe that someone who has no children cannot possibly critique parenting with any sort of validity. I dont think I addressed that one clearly enough. I did write the following, however, back some pages: The primary way to attain a good barometer...
NetDoc, it is becoming more and more clear that you are not my intended audience, and are not at all open to what I have to say. But that does not mean everyone on this site is like you. Perhaps there are others who just have not yet found value in my writing.
Hi all.
I came back to visit this site and saw that this topic had completely disappeared into oblivion. Figured I'd try to revive it, as I feel it has great value.
Hope others out there agree.
Any takers?
-TT
I see the Valley Spirit as the depth of ourselves, the root of our truth and our emotions, the basic essence of who we are - and you could call it our soul. I view it as the flip side of our AWARENESS, of our consciousness, of our intellect.
This part of the Tao Te Ching inspired a short...
Sciences and theories with humans are always imprecise. Although I use some scientific-like language to frame my point of view, I am really driven much more by spiritual truths. I feel them in my soul. Once upon a time I got a degree in biology, and I learned from being in that system just how...
Ouch! But that said, which is worse, making a three-hour tale out of a limerick or a person living his or her whole adult life in miserable denial?
Yes, though there are some physicians that do better than others. But most physicians, from what Ive seen, are terribly in denial and lost in...
The wound = unmet childhood needs.
The road to heaven leads straight through hell.
I wrote a few in the earlier reply on this thread to Michel, but even these books do not entirely support my point of view, but theyre the closest out there of anything, and Ill add a few more: Drama...
Hi EnhancedSpirit:
Lovely post. At first I thought it was your own personal writing then I realized it was someone elses. Alas! Regardless, I find it largely overlaps with my point of view.
I particularly like this segment:
This brings up a key point for me. Yes, depression has a...
What you have pointed out here does not add up to what I and many others have witnessed firsthand as clinicians. Now granted there are many clinicians who will side with you, but in my experience and I know many firsthand and have witnessed them at work and in their personal lives and know...
If you heal the wound (you could call it a psychological or an emotional or a spiritual wound) the chemical imbalance automatically heals itself. The underlying wound is what is causing the chemical imbalance.
I have developed this theory myself over a period of time. It has come from a variety of sources: primarily from my own self-exploration, from my clinical work with patients as a psychotherapist, from my observation of children and parents as an educator, and from my reading of various...