I think it would be best, if teachers would only teach neutral things and keep their private life out of the teachings.
I think all educators and all parents believe this is best. I believe that too. Religious teachers shouldn't be pushing their religion on students, and so forth. So all teachers, gay or straight, should be doing this.
I don't see why you believe someone being gay means that they don't do this? Do you believe they are promoting being gay, simply by being gay, regardless of what they say or teach in the classroom?
And I think also all books that promote ideologies or world views should be out of public school. If parents want to teach for example Christianity, it would be best to do it at home, or private Christian school. And same is with all other ideologies or world views. If parents want their children to be communists, they should have a school for communists...
I'm not so sure about the idea of banning books in school libraries, once students are of a certain age of course. Obviously, you don't stock the libraries of elementary schools with age-inappropriate material. Once you're talking highschool and stuff, then exposing children to different points of views, is important for the purpose of a broad education.
Simply exposing children at age-appropriate stages of development to different ideas, is not the same thing as "promoting" those ideas. Unless you believe in book burning and
suppressing information is good for people?
It seems to me that the problem is that it is difficult to allow others to be what they are. Why for example LG... group must have pride month pushed to everyone, why could they not just keep private party and not force everyone else see it?
I think about it like this. Things like gay pride month, or things like Black History month, and such, are not "pushing" it on others. What it is is them asserting themselves rather than them being pushed into a corner, or a closet, or ignored and repressed socially. Those pride month, or history month, etc, for different repressed groups, are simply for one purpose: Raising public awareness of them as equal citizens.
You don't consider a civil rights march to be blacks pushing their
blackness on us, do you? We should learn to respect and appreciate those of our own culture, whereas they have been historical mistreated by culture at large. That's all these things are for. Raising awareness of them as part of this country too, blacks, women, gays, native people's, etc', who have all been historically mistreated by us.
So if someone considers them "coming out of the closet" of repressions we in mainstream culture have forced them into through shame and ridicule and systemic separations, as them "pushing their values on us", haven't you considered that is was
US, who pushed our values on them, and pushed them out of society?
That is really the first cause here. And them standing up and saying "Hey, I'm here. Don't ignore me", is not them pushing us. It them simply asking us to be
recognized. That's not so bad, is it?
But Jesus also said, "sin no more" (John 5:14). If one loves, he tells if he thinks something is wrong and harmful. But obviously it can be said in respectful way. Jesus don't say we should be united with everyone, only that disciples of Jesus should be one.
Ah, but before you think you can tell someone that you think something is wrong, you'd best do personal inventory first. That process is enough in itself for you to take your focus off of others. "First remove the beam out of your own eye, and then you can see clearly to remove the speck out of your brother's eye".
You see, if we are feeling compelled to call another a sinner and point out their flaws, Jesus instructs us to instead turn that focus upon ourselves. It's far too easy to avoid looking at ourselves, by looking at others. "But what about them!", is a good way for us to avoid looking at ourselves. And what we find when we do look at ourselves, is that we aren't any better than anyone else. If we recognize our own flaws, and come to accept them, then we are less prone to fault find others.
But I do have to ask. Is being black and standing up for yourself from being pushed around, sinful? Is being a Native American, a sin? Do they need to become White Christians in order to be good people? Obviously not. And we know better today that someone being homosexual is not a choice. It is no more a choice than the color of your skin is a choice. Those who called it a "lifestyle choice" (Jerry Falwell Sr.), were absolutely uninformed and politically motivated. These are all confirmable facts. Why on earth would a young man choose to make himself afraid of the society he lives in, exposing himself to shame and guilt? That's insane.
But even so, even if you wish to deny that what we know today about homosexuality, which has been with us from the very beginning, and is found in other animal species of the world to the same percentages you see in the human species, it is still not up to you to "take the mote out of your brothers eye." It is not up to you to try to "fix" others.
Whoever doesn’t receive you, nor hear your words, as you go out of that house or that city, shake off the dust from your feet.
Matt. 10:14
This should not be misused to say, if you don't believe what I believe, you are rejecting God. Christians disagree with each other all the time. But to misuse scripture to say to those who disagree with you that they are rejecting God, is an offense against your brother or sister. It is abusing God.
I am no more in the world, but these are in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father, keep them through your name which you have given me, that they may be one, even as we are.
John 17:11
Amen. And how do they be one as "we are one"? Love. Not judging and trying to fix each other. "Woman where are thy accusers? Neither do I condemn you." I have found that those who condemn others, are themselves afraid of being condemned. That's why they do that.
Christians should not force others to be like them, but neither they should be part of something that is not good.
Then you choose for yourself not to participate in something that you don't want to. No one is forcing you to march in a gay pride parade. But it sounds like you are saying Christians shouldn't allow gay pride parades to happen. It's the duty of a Christian to stop gays from saying they are gay. Correct?
Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity?
Again, you don't have to join in a groups meetings, in order to not stand outside their meeting places and protest them meeting, or threatening to blow them up or some awful form of violence. Right? Where is Christian Grace in such actions? Where is humility?