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What would you change about your self if you were able to?

Rival

Rival

se Dex me saut.
Staff member
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Amanaki said:
Can i ask why you hate being a girl?
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It's all about pain. Period pain. Losing virginity pain. Pregnancy pain and sickness. Childbirth pain and potential death. Having breasts also sucks. Hormones are a nightmare (hello adult acne). More chance of being raped or the victim of a serial killer. Too small to defend ourselves. Men in general being obnoxious to us. Being expected to do this and that with our bodies.

All that aside I just generally do not fit in with most girls I know and do not feel either male or female but if given a choice I would do anything to avoid the bull**** that comes with having a female body. I truly despise it.
 
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Deidre

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I'd be way less cautious. I'd get a bunch of tats and piercings, and travel the world...backpacking. But, I never did any of that. My parents are strict, and I was told to go to college, and get a safe job. Safe, meaning one that pays, and that THEY can brag about to their friends. I let that inner wildness come out every now and then, but I'm still pretty guarded, and wish I was more of a risk taker.
 
metis

metis

aged ecumenical anthropologist
Amanaki said:
What would you change about you self if you were able to?
Could you explain why you want this to change about your self?
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My insecurities and "inferiority complex", especially when growing up. And it even still bites me in the butt every once in a while even at my age-- er, I mean maturity-- even today.
 
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Rival said:
It's all about pain. Period pain. Losing virginity pain. Pregnancy pain and sickness. Childbirth pain and potential death. Having breasts also sucks. Hormones are a nightmare (hello adult acne). More chance of being raped or the victim of a serial killer. Too small to defend ourselves. Men in general being obnoxious to us. Being expected to do this and that with our bodies.

All that aside I just generally do not fit in with most girls I know and do not feel either male or female but if given a choice I would do anything to avoid the bull**** that comes with having a female body. I truly despise it.
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I nearly cried reading this, I don't know why.
 
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Link

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Deidre said:
I'd be way less cautious. I'd get a bunch of tats and piercings, and travel the world...backpacking. But, I never did any of that. My parents are strict, and I was told to go to college, and get a safe job. Safe, meaning one that pays, and that THEY can brag about to their friends. I let that inner wildness come out every now and then, but I'm still pretty guarded, and wish I was more of a risk taker.
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Man, that beast is hard to tame, I feel like going to the wild side all the time. Crystals, orgies, tats, piercings, and a lot of open relationship, and getting into magic.

Sometimes, I'm afraid if I'll be shown miracles, I will accuse the Miracle performer be it Jesus or the Mahdi or Elijah or anyone coming back and chosen by God, of being a sorcerer. I see that I've not tamed irrationality nor is the light that beautiful in my view as it's suppose to be.

I hold this beast at bay, lest I lose everything in this world and next however, indeed that is the severe loss.
 
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Amanaki said:
As the headline ask.

What would you change about you self if you were able to?
Could you explain why you want this to change about your self?
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I would avoid sins and wasting so much time. I'm trying to change that, less wasting time and more productive and beneficial with my time.
 
Mock Turtle

Mock Turtle

Oh my, did I say that!
Premium Member
Rival said:
It's all about pain. Period pain. Losing virginity pain. Pregnancy pain and sickness. Childbirth pain and potential death. Having breasts also sucks. Hormones are a nightmare (hello adult acne). More chance of being raped or the victim of a serial killer. Too small to defend ourselves. Men in general being obnoxious to us. Being expected to do this and that with our bodies.

All that aside I just generally do not fit in with most girls I know and do not feel either male or female but if given a choice I would do anything to avoid the bull**** that comes with having a female body. I truly despise it.
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I think I'll rescind my desire to be a girl. :oops: But I think we can all (probably) understand where you are on this, and no doubt applies to so many others. Probably fewer issues with being a boy, even if we don't get so much the natural love that comes with motherhood (from a child).
 
ChristineM

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
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Amanaki said:
As the headline ask.

What would you change about you self if you were able to?
Could you explain why you want this to change about your self?
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I'm not sure i would change much, nothing visible and i im pretty content mentally.

But... It would be ok to get rid of a couple of fairly minor health problems.
 
Trailblazer

Trailblazer

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ChristineM said:
I think it's just a state of mind
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I agree, but for various reasons having to do with my life situation it is difficult to maintain that state.
I have recently come to realize it is almost all about my life situation, which I cannot change right now.
I don't know if it will ever change so detachment is the order of the day.
 
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