Would it be healthy to find compassion for him later in life?
If there is neither love nor hate (indifferent) than why would you not talk to him (why would someone not talk if they're feelings are no longer love or hate towards that person?) I assume indifference would rid one?
In other words, there is no reason to forget a person when you're indifferent about your feelings towards him or her.
Well, this guy is a total sponge...
He abused the friendship he had with me for financial gain and did the same to at least one other person too
It is a catalogue of financial abuse and sponging
He basically uses his charm to befriend people and then sponges - classic sociopathic behaviour
He calls you "friend" and "brother" but all he does is take, take, take, whilst promising to pay back (which never happens)
Letting him back into my life would be allowing him to sink his vampire teeth into my neck again, and he would do it again, he will never change because he is weak and has the maturity of a child - he is a man-child, but that's no excuse!