And yet, they continue to experience extreme grief, sorrow, sadness, etc.
I must resist digging into this subject because it would seriously side track.
In a nutshell: the behaviour of mourning that I observe in believers is not at all consistent with their supposed belief that their loved one is happily enjoying eternal bliss in a better place and that they'll meet again when they are dead as well.
The larger point though, to get back to the discussion at hand, is that clearly - also in the eyes of the believer - life (and the experience thereof in terms of happy or suffering) is a LOT more valueable and precious then
@Road Warrior is implying.
He's like "in the great scheme of things none of anything that happens here is of any relevance".
CLEARLY that is not the case.