Yes I 100% agree. I rejected evangelical fundamentalism because of the judgement I saw in myself and others in that system, I knew it wasn't God. I'm not there yet but I'm on a journey of self discovery, which includes being open minded and less rigid
Reminded me of this prayer;
"O God! Refresh and gladden my spirit. Purify my heart. Illumine my powers. I lay all my affairs in Thy hand. Thou art my Guide and my Refuge. I will no longer be sorrowful and grieved; I will be a happy and joyful being. O God! I will no longer be full of anxiety, nor will I let trouble harass me. I will not dwell on the unpleasant things of life.
O God! Thou art more friend to me than I am to myself. I dedicate myself to Thee, O Lord."
My wife, God bless her Heart, read that prayer on the wall of someone she went to say Hi to back in 1984. After reading that prayer she asked where it had come from and when told it was a Baha'i Prayer, she asked how could she become a Baha'i and did then and there. She told me when I got back from work and I burst the balloon of happiness, I was very angry, it took me a month or so to actually read something about the Faith and bingo!
It has been a journey of discovery ever since, as one thing we must know is that when we say we believe, that belief will always be tested. God wants us to find our true selves, the self that gives unconditionally.
All the best, the heart is the key
"SON OF SPIRIT! My first counsel is this: Possess a pure, kindly and radiant heart, that thine may be a sovereignty ancient, imperishable and everlasting.
Regards Tony