namaskaram Terese ji
here you pose the most difficult question to answer , ...because you use the term ''real'' .....''is this physical form real ?''
first we have to realise that our understandig of reality is very limited , we think in terms of physical matter bound by time , Mahavisnu is beyond such limitations however that does not make him unreal , firstly we know from shastra that he can manifest at will , whilst symultaniously he pervades all space and time , it is only through such manifestations that we can begin to understand his unlimited nature , so if one were asking is this or any one manifestation the reality , the answer would have to be no , as each manifestation is but a minute portion of his true splendor but that does not render that manifestation unreal ,
just recently we discussed the universal form displayed by Krsna to Arjuna on the battle feild of Kurukshetra, ...chapter 11 of the Bhagavad Gita , ...here Arjuna asks Krsna to display his universal form , which Krsna does , but inorder for Arjuna to see this divine form he grants Arjuna divine sight , ...even with this boon of divine sight Arjuna is still overwhelmed by this divine form , .....
so to the question of is this form real , ...the answer must be yes , but the understanding must be that this form is just a partial manifestation of the supreme , ..... and are the Lokas real ? , ....of course , ...but again we must streach our comprehension a little to even begin to understand the existance of these Lokas , as due to our limited human form we think only in terms of destinations , of physical places being here or there , ....we find it hard to think that prehaps these Lokas too are not bound by space and time , ....as they like the supreme are eternal , self existing and all pervasive , .....
just as we our selves can reside in numerous states of mind , but just because we canot see a state of mind , can we say that it exists or does not exist ?
many schools of Dharmic thought vew this (physisal relm) that we think real to be illusuory , therefore all in their own ways explore the self existing , the eternal , the unborn , ...but none in this conditioned state can fully comprehend the true nature of the absolute , ....it is only through contemplation and devotion that we begin to depart from this physical relm and catch glimpses of true reality , ...(that is what makes a devotee a devotee , ....
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