Being that two of you expressed a seemingly non-dualist outlook, consider this. One point I find interesting is that people from all parts of the globe, from all eras in history inherently conceive of an individual self and define it physiologically, either as the individual organism itself or a product of it. To my knowledge there hasn't been any record which documents a society whose outlook is universally non-dualist. And so the notion of an individual self appears to be 'programmed'.
Now taking into account the Abrahamic notion of God as 'other' with the notion of non-dualism and 'non other', is it more beneficial to the human condition to assume one notion over the other?
And because of the 'programming' of an individual self, might that in and of itself lend credence to the notion of God and 'other'? Do we as a species need that notion in order to prosper?
So what terms would you use to describe yourselves or the persuasion you follow?
Society and culture are products of many individual personalities that have influence over each other, striving for an ideal personality. So while no society recorded has had a nondualist outlook, the nature of most, if not all recorded societies tend to be that way. Not consciously, but in their nature nonetheless. It also seems like most cultures have a vision of a One Hero who most can relate to. Myths and legends from many ancient worlds suggest of a One Man that identifies with this ideal personality flawlessly. So this ideal personality the societies build not only show through each individual member of the society and the society's practices, but many have legends of a fictional character that represents it wholeheartedly. Odysseus, Beowulf, Jesus, King Arthur, Thoth, Krishna, Hercules, Gilgamesh, etc. (Many of those examples aren't perfect examples of what I'm saying but I think they are suitable for the point I'm trying to make)
Basically, while we live and dwell in the illusion of separate selves which is how our societies base, the nondualist Oneness reality can be observed to flow out of each society unintentionally. Each society may create a different example of this oneness's personality, but the absolute reality is beyond us so we should expect it to flow that way. The main thing is, they flow in the same revealing direction that does define one of the aspects of the Absolute: we are all many different legs, but we move as one.