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Not wanting sex is abuse now?

Wirey

Wirey

Fartist
Deidre said:
That's noble, I suppose. But, I value myself above a relationship. If someone abuses me...and I allow it, then it's just as much about me, as it is that person. Accepting abuse in the hopes you can fix another person...isn't noble at the end of the day. That's my opinion only of course.
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How do you feel about men who are too lazy to be abusive?

How you doin'?
 
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Kerr

Well-Known Member
freethinker44 said:
Apparently, not wanting to have sex when your significant other does is domestic abuse.
At least that's what this writer thinks.
Why Does The Passive Aggressive Man Withhold Sex?

And before anyone says she isn't saying it's domestic abuse, she also wrote this saying passive aggressive behavior is domestic abuse. Otherwise it is unrelated but equally hilarious. (procrastination and forgetfulness = passive aggressive = domestic abuse)
Passive Aggressive Behavior and Domestic Abuse

And yet I'm the ******* for criticizing certain people for being professional victims.
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Does she label every man as passive agressive and abusive if they don't want to have sex, or does she claim every man who withholds sex due to passive agressive reasons are abusive? It seems like the former, but given my incredible ability to missunderstand things, I'm not sure :p.

Either way, there is nothing abusive or passive agressive about simply not being in the mood for sex. Happens to women and men alike.

Can see some men withholding sex as punishment, though (there are all kinds of people in the world).
 
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freethinker44

Well-Known Member
Kerr said:
Does she label every man as passive agressive and abusive if they don't want to have sex, or does she claim every man who withholds sex due to passive agressive reasons are abusive? It seems like the former, but given my incredible ability to missunderstand things, I'm not sure :p.

Either way, there is nothing abusive or passive agressive about simply not being in the mood for sex. Happens to women and men alike.

Can see some men withholding sex as punishment, though (there are all kinds of people in the world).
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Well, the example she used was a loving couple have a wonderful day shopping at the mall and the man is too tired for sex at the end of the day. So she doesn't outright say this is every man, but the bar is set so incredibly low that only the most subservient men wouldn't be considered passive aggressive, aka abusive.
 
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