religious teenage girl (ritual, moral, mystic, beliefs, hell) - Page 2

Booko · #11 11-02-2007, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by 6ibanifanatici

In my school the kids are behaving themselfs awfull and living lives full of sins.Im being discriminated against all the time. They always make fun of me,because i follow the words of the Lord.

Just keep in mind all the harms in life you can escape by never getting close to the traps in the first place.

Also, you can control your behaviour. It's not wise to control others' behaviour. They will have to learn things in their own way at their own pace.

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But the thing that pushed me hardest,was something that happend 2 days ago at school.The teacher was telling a story of a kid who died of cancer and in the break one of the students said: "Everytime a child dies,God mastrubates".
I was so shoked and offended by this,i ran of school that day and stood at home whole afternoon.I still just cant take this anymore. I could use your advices,good people.What should i do?

Don't make that person's problem your own. Believe me, you'll have enough things in your own life to deal with without having to worry about other people's problems.

ayani · #12 11-02-2007, 08:12 PM

i too love fluffy things. welcome, dear.

it can be very difficult to be a young person of faith... i remember feeling similarly alienated in school. it can be a difficult trial.

may God give you His peace and guide you. hope to hear more from you, ibani.

6ibanifanatici · #13 11-03-2007, 10:54 AM

Thank you all for your kind answers.

Super Universe · #14 11-03-2007, 01:13 PM

I think you are more mature than the other students but you are still a child too.

What if I told you a story about a child who grows up in a poor and troubled home, even so, this child always smiles and says good and positive things. One day a bitter adult shouts at the child "What are you so happy about, you have no reason to smile!" The child replies "But the sun rose this morning didn't it?"

If you want to only dwell on the bad things that happen in life then that is your choice. If you want to overcome those bad things, use them to become stronger, that can be your choice as well.

Mike182 · #15 11-03-2007, 01:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Super Universe

If you want to only dwell on the bad things that happen in life then that is your choice. If you want to overcome those bad things, use them to become stronger, that can be your choice as well.

i don't know if you intended it or not, but that sounded very unsympathetic...

6ibanifanatici · #16 11-03-2007, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Super Universe

What if I told you a story about a child who grows up in a poor and troubled home, even so, this child always smiles and says good and positive things. One day a bitter adult shouts at the child "What are you so happy about, you have no reason to smile!" The child replies "But the sun rose this morning didn't it?"

Oh! This is an awfull story! What wisdom do you see in that?? It is terrible...It sounds like the child is retarded or mad or something like that, if not,then must be absolut egoist. Can you explain me please,why do you like this story?

Peace · #17 11-03-2007, 03:31 PM

Welcome dear!
I am sorry for the loss of your mother! Life is full of tests for us human beings and the winner is the one who believes and who is patient during afflictions. May our dear God grant you patience and be your companion in this life, ameen!

Peace

Super Universe · #18 11-03-2007, 07:08 PM

It's not an awful story. It's an amazing story.

I didn't say the child was retarded or mad or anything like that. Why would you think that? Because the child has an optimistic view towards life and isn't angry at being poor?

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methylatedghosts · #19 11-04-2007, 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by 6ibanifanatici

Oh! This is an awfull story! What wisdom do you see in that?? It is terrible...It sounds like the child is retarded or mad or something like that, if not,then must be absolut egoist. Can you explain me please,why do you like this story?

The child just sees the good in everything he or she can. Sometimes, when there seems to be nothing else positive in your life, a sunrise can make you feel better. He or she is happy to be given another day! Even in this poor childs life there are positives.

I hope you find warmth and comfort on this forum, and I hope you are able to learn much and grow more. Life is full of opportunities and every day is a blank canvas for you to paint your future on.