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#1
10-11-2008, 07:55 PM
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Husband Problems..
Well...I think my husband is jealous of my affections to my grandbaby..
Yes..he is jealous that I am pretty energized when Im around the baby..I want to go places more...I am "happier".. They say "men are simple" and women are "complicated"..Its the other way around man..At least in my life.. Its a "no brainer" babies bring energy and exitement...But to him.."the simple man" its so complicated to the point Im conspiring to "use him" to escort me places and be the "designated driver" when we have the baby with us... The "simple man" has turned into a ball of insecure infant jealousy himself...but in a man body..that has "complicated ideas" and jealousy running through his head that I cant even compete with...and Im the jealous type... I must have really screwed up...that he could be this aggressive towards me.. And Im not stupid...its about "attention"..He is jealous of the attention I give a little baby...A baby that he loves too...and that he gives lots of attention.. I dont know exactly why Im posting this...accept to vent..And to WITNESS men are WAY more complicated than they "claim"...and they are big fat insecure babies... Love Dallas
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#2
10-11-2008, 08:04 PM
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Aww, tell him that although you're giving the baby a lot of love it doesn't mean that you love him any less. Tell him in a nice loving way and be affectionate. It's human to have some insecurities.
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10-11-2008, 08:40 PM
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And to be honest?...I do love him less...I love my husbands jealous insecure *** less.. Sorry... Love Dallas
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#4
10-11-2008, 09:09 PM
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 Do both of you spend less time together now? Tell him that you're hurt by his actions.  I hope you guys work this out. Life is so short. Recently my husband's aunt died and she and her husband were so close they never went anywhere without each other. Her husband couldn't go to the cemetary...he couldn't bear to see her being put into a hole. This made me think that death could come at any moment and every moment is precious with the one you love. Ask your husband if something were to happen to you tomorrow and his last words to you were in anger, how would he feel? Tell him that your marriage is special to you and life is so short that people shouldn't waste time agruing over little things.
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"I am neither mind, intellect, ego, nor thoughts, I am not the five senses, I am beyond that." ~ Atma Shatakam
Last edited by Hema; 10-11-2008 at 09:16 PM.
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10-11-2008, 10:20 PM
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We will work it out...Im just ****** off because of what he said..
Hes a BIG baby! But we will work it out... Its not like 'divorce time" or anything..Im just "amazed" how jealous he is after all this time.. Its "silly"... I would think he would be proud of me... Love Dallas
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#6
10-11-2008, 10:26 PM
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When I was eight and my baby sister was born I was jealous that no one ever paid attention to me anymore. He probably just feels sort of the same way.
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#7
10-11-2008, 10:30 PM
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Well were you MEAN to the people who paid more attention to your baby sister..AND were you a 42 year old grown man? Being NICE to everyonne but your wife????? RED DEVIL FACE!!!!!!!!!! Love Dallas
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10-11-2008, 10:33 PM
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