dropping out

[tcprowling]

This morning a personal one on one issue, concerning myself and another member, Popped up. Now before i go any futher I wish to stress this issue has NOT breeched any of the forum rules and most probably means absolutely nothing to any body other then the two parties involved. The core of it is a personal off forum issue. that has left me confused as to whether it is an innocent or deliberate thing.
efforts to clarify this issue have been to no avail ( Again this is not the fault of the forum).
I would never want another member, no matter what, to feel uncomfortable being on the forum whilst I am here, nor do I want to see personal issues introduced into this forum. I don't want to feel uneasy because of the presence of another member.
So with the best interests of the forum in mind I have choosen to drop out for a while, til I see which way the cookie bounces.
I will look in from time to time. to all those I have made personal contact with please feel free to keep in touch
your truly
TC

[lizskid]

Aww, tc, I'm sorry if something has made you feel that this is the only answer. Can you let mods help, even if it appears to be personal? Hang in there and reconsider.
Take care, whatever you feel your decision has to be.

[Tigress]

Take care, TC. I hope that things resolve themselves, whatever they may be.

[Buttons*]

I'll miss you *hug*

[GeneCosta]

I'm sorry to read that, tc.

[Katzpur]

Originally Posted by tcprowling

I would never want another member, no matter what, to feel uncomfortable being on the forum whilst I am here, nor do I want to see personal issues introduced into this forum. I don't want to feel uneasy because of the presence of another member.

This post alone proves that you are more considerate than the average person! You should not have to leave in order that someone else feel comfortable. I truly hope you will reconsider.

[Djamila]

I hope you'll stay, TC. There are several people on RF I'm not comfortable with, but it's no reason to leave. No one has the right to ask you to do that.

[Booko]

Originally Posted by lizskid

Aww, tc, I'm sorry if something has made you feel that this is the only answer. Can you let mods help, even if it appears to be personal? Hang in there and reconsider.
Take care, whatever you feel your decision has to be.

What liz said!

If you need to take a bit of time off and have a break, yeah, that happens, but I hope you'll return soon, 'cause I'll miss you a lot.

[tcprowling]

Firstly people thank you all for your kind words and wishes of support. It was vert touching and most apprecitive.
I 'd like to clear a couple of things here I wasn't asked to drop outnor was I forced out via tha action of any one person> a situation developed where I felt unsure that my self or the other person may have felt uncomfortable or uneasy in the fact that we were both on Rf at the same time. so I choose to drop out pending a clarification that such a situation would not arise. I made the choice in the best interest of the forum so as not to bring personal conflict on to the board, I hope you all understand that.
As in any conflict, disagreement , relationship break up there are two sides to the problem and the combatants will see and feel justified In seeing things from their own point of view. there is not much we can do to change that, so be it.
the thing that is important is that neither of us allowed it to flow over into RF, i am sure the other person feels the same way. so to make things easier I choose to drop out pending how things panned out.
I am happy to say that contact was made, and the other party and myself feel we can co exist within the forum without getting in each others road. I certianly hope so! As I said in my OP I don't want anybody to feel ill at easy because of my presence here.
So while I still might take it easy for a little while I will be back again thank you all I feel iam in deed amoung friends. I hope all that makes sense and doesn't offend ANYBODY