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Originally Posted by gracie
Victor-
i really am not sure what to say... the issue of suffering, why we suffer and what purpose (as many do not want to think of their suffering as for nothing) pain leads to have bothered me for years. i just haven't found many answers.
i remember a quote from a book i especially love that said "what a man has suffered, no force on earth can take from him". what we have suffered, endured, lived through can be looked back upon with something like accomplishment, though it can take a long time, coming to that stage.
i still feel angry, guilty, depressed, and hurt. but i try not to push those feelings away, really. they are with me too, and they will always be with me. my scars, memories, everything. i try to take all of it in my arms now. i use my experiences to reach out to and communicate with others who can similarly relate.
from suffering can come community, growth, and creativity. i don't know what the big answers to suffering may be. but i do know how i and others have found little answers. and those have made all the difference.
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Unfortunately (for Victor) I agree with much of what you say.
I too have found that I have become a much 'fuller' person as a result of suffering - which will continue until I die. Sure, I can put it in it's 'place' and I can say that it doesn't totally rule my life - but, looking at the positives, it has taught me a lot about human nature. For one it has taught me how to help others. It is a Process of learning; like anything in life, there is both good and bad in anything.
If I knew 'then' what I do today, would I go through it all again, for the benefit of what I have learned ? -I am a coward, so I'll say 'no'.
