Teens and sex (virginity, choice, hell, experience, sex)

[kai]

Teens and Sex ---its going to happen some time , you have to try and talk, its very important to talk to teenagers , they turn into a stranger during teenage years and you have to try and minimise that.

[Charity]

I guess everyone is glad it is not their family involved, but with the way teens are today and the peer pressure, you never know when it might be YOUR own family.
Sometimes good people just make wrong choices.......

[Sunstone]

Originally Posted by Charity

...but with the way teens are today and the peer pressure...

Hell, given how much testosterone kids have, they don't even need the added incentive of peer pressure.

[Sunstone]

Originally Posted by kai

Teens and Sex ---its going to happen some time , you have to try and talk, its very important to talk to teenagers , they turn into a stranger during teenage years and you have to try and minimise that.

Good advice.

[d3vaLL]

Let her learn the hard way, if she doesn't see why it isn't a big deal now, it's too late to teach her anyways. Keep her from getting pregnant and keep her close. Otherwise, let her do the talking when she wants or you may regret it. And when she does, don't denounce her, ask the right questions, you'll get the right answers.

[Sunstone]

Originally Posted by d3vaLL

Let her learn the hard way, if she doesn't see why it isn't a big deal now, it's too late to teach her anyways. Keep her from getting pregnant and keep her close. Otherwise, let her do the talking when she wants or you may regret it. And when she does, don't denounce her, ask the right questions, you'll get the right answers.

More good advice. Teens take a lot of patience.

[Panda]

Originally Posted by Charity

If you teen daughter was going to a friend's house to spend the night and you later found out that she was spending the night at her boyfriend's house how would you handle this situation.....This was with the knowledge of the boy's parents. The girl is 15, the boy 17. Are there any legal actions that could be taken here against the boy's parents?

I don't see the problem. 15 isn't that young, there isn't much of an age gap and if parents think this isn't normal they might need a bit of a rethink on what teens get up to. If they have been in a fairly long term relationship (normally over a month but sometimes a few weeks) and they use protection it doesn't seem like a problem.

[Sunstone]

Originally Posted by Panda

I don't see the problem. 15 isn't that young, there isn't much of an age gap and if parents think this isn't normal they might need a bit of a rethink on what teens get up to. If they have been in a fairly long term relationship (normally over a month but sometimes a few weeks) and they use protection it doesn't seem like a problem.

To me, the problems are (1) she lied to her parents, and (2) the boy's parents supported her efforts to deceive her own parents.

On the other hand, I don't think it's necessarily a problem for a 15 year old to have sex.

[Panda]

Originally Posted by Sunstone

To me, the problems are (1) she lied to her parents, and (2) the boy's parents supported her efforts to deceive her own parents.

On the other hand, I don't think it's necessarily a problem for a 15 year old to have sex.

I suppose you are right on 1) but on 2) do the boys parents know the girls parents don't know?

[Sunstone]

Originally Posted by Panda

I suppose you are right on 1) but on 2) do the boys parents know the girls parents don't know?

That's a good question. I'm not sure whether the boy's parents knew or not that she was deceiving her parents.