Secrets (moral, marriage, confess, sex)

[huajiro]

I know that most people won't post on this one, but I would like to know what people's secrets are, things that you feel would make others judge you if the knew.

[huajiro]

My big secret is that I am addicted to sex. I have learned to control it, but I desire it 24 hours a day. It has caused me great grief in my lifetime, as it tends to ruin relationships. Before I met my wife, I was dating 8 women at the same time, and had a physical relationship with all of them. I never went to get help over it, and I am controlling it, but it is like a sleeping beast inside me.

[jewscout]

I feel you on the sex thing huajiro...but for me i think...it's pot. I haven't smoked in a few years but everytime something comes on television about weed or i walk past someone and i smell the sweet sweet smell my mouth practically waters. It's like looking at the most delicious meal you can think of. I haven't touched it in a while but it always looks so tempting.

[lousyskater]

might as well turn this into a "guilty pleasures" thread. well, i'm widely entertained by gore.

[huajiro]

Originally Posted by jewscout

I feel you on the sex thing huajiro...but for me i think...it's pot. I haven't smoked in a few years but everytime something comes on television about weed or i walk past someone and i smell the sweet sweet smell my mouth practically waters. It's like looking at the most delicious meal you can think of. I haven't touched it in a while but it always looks so tempting.

Wow...I always felt my body was too numb when I tried it. Maybe it is a good thing I didn't really like it, then I would want to get stoned, and have sex all the time!!!!!!!!

[huajiro]

Originally Posted by lousyskater

might as well turn this into a "guilty pleasures" thread. well, i'm widely entertained by gore.

I understand your fascination with gore. I saw some about 5 years back and they still stick in my mind. It seems so unbelieveable that you are actually watching it. I saw this one video of a Russian soldier getting his throat cut....I just found myself in disbelief, yet I watched it over and over......not in a sick way....more of an empathetic feeling came over me.

[robtex]

Originally Posted by huajiro

My big secret is that I am addicted to sex. I have learned to control it, but I desire it 24 hours a day. It has caused me great grief in my lifetime, as it tends to ruin relationships. Before I met my wife, I was dating 8 women at the same time, and had a physical relationship with all of them. I never went to get help over it, and I am controlling it, but it is like a sleeping beast inside me.

you goofball that is most guys its genetic. Propogation of the species. Although 8 at one time is uncool......Learn to contol it means fighting your genes. Maybe channel it into your marriage. High sex drives are more common in healthier males so if you really feel you have to sqaush it run your health into the ground.

My confession lets see. When I was a kid about 10 years old I learned how to shoot a gun. I couldn't have a real rifle but my parents bought me a bb/pellet gun and I went out with the neigborhood kids for years..up until about age 14 and "practiced hunting" by killing birds snakes, and turtles. I remember killing some birds from as far as 100 to 2oo feet away the a pellet gun.

Today I still have a lot of guilt about that but at the time I remember thinking it was ok. I wish I would have had somebody set me down and talk about life and death at that age. It still bothers me to this day that I did that.

[lousyskater]

Originally Posted by huajiro

I understand your fascination with gore. I saw some about 5 years back and they still stick in my mind. It seems so unbelieveable that you are actually watching it. I saw this one video of a Russian soldier getting his throat cut....I just found myself in disbelief, yet I watched it over and over......not in a sick way....more of an empathetic feeling came over me.

i don't know what it is that attracts me to it. it's not a crazy thing where i'll end up killing someone just for the gore, it just makes me feel life more. i think it all began when i saw my friend get hit by a train. and don't ask about the friend. i don't want to go into that.

[huajiro]

Originally Posted by robtex

My confession lets see. When I was a kid about 10 years old I learned how to shoot a gun. I couldn't have a real rifle but my parents bought me a bb/pellet gun and I went out with the neigborhood kids for years..up until about age 14 and "practiced hunting" by killing birds snakes, and turtles. I remember killing some birds from as far as 100 to 2oo feet away the a pellet gun.

Today I still have a lot of guilt about that but at the time I remember thinking it was ok. I wish I would have had somebody set me down and talk about life and death at that age. It still bothers me to this day that I did that.

You goofball, in most kids that is genetic (just kidding). I remember the kids in my neighborhood killing frogs, I thought that was the worst, or putting salt on snails. I got beat by my Grandfather because I scared away a deer when we went hunting in Wisconsin.

You really shouldn't feel guilty though. All kids go through a moral learning process, as you said, you could have used an example. I had no Father, so I understand how you feel.

[SoulTYPE]

Originally Posted by lousyskater

might as well turn this into a "guilty pleasures" thread. well, i'm widely entertained by gore.

We need to get to gether...