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| View Poll Results: Who do you take your aggressions out on? | |||
| I take it mostly out on the ones I love. |
   
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1 | 4.35% |
| I try not to take it out on the ones I love, but hold it in |
  
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10 | 43.48% |
| I try to take in out on anybody who gets in my way. |
  
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1 | 4.35% |
| Other. Please specify. |
  
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11 | 47.83% |
| Voters: 23. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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#1
02-11-2006, 12:23 PM
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Taking it out on others.
When your having a bad day, do you tend to take it out on others? Sometimes we hurt the ones we love the most. Sometimes we hurt people we hardly know. Poll to follow.
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#2
02-11-2006, 12:27 PM
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I try hard not to do so but sometimes is difficult; So easy to mistake and so difficult to go back. Anyway, I think the best way to avoid this is letting the angry go somewhere else, personally I practice kung fu and tai-chi.
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#3
02-11-2006, 12:28 PM
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I said the second one, but, even though I try, I'm not very good at it.
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#4
02-11-2006, 12:34 PM
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I too, said the second one, I try to shut myself away from people.
I know I have snapped at people in the forum too, and if I hurt anyone I am truely sorryI often seem to take it out on some one, even though its not my intention, including my dog, anyone close to me gets a back lash from my tongue..... SORRY! Last edited by Evenstar; 02-11-2006 at 12:39 PM.
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#5
02-11-2006, 12:35 PM
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I take it out on myself, mentally.
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#6
02-11-2006, 12:36 PM
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Ditto. I try not to take it out on the ones I love, but hold it in.
Actually, that is not an adaptive way of dealing with the emotions; to bottle them up means that when the valve blows, it blows!  Better to get stuff of your chest as it comes (for the sake of your mental well being); perhaps some tiring physical activity. Why do I preach what I can't do ? 
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My life is an open book; if you don't like the read, put me back on the shelf ....................
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#7
02-11-2006, 12:41 PM
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Michel, so well said, I couldn't agree more.
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#8
02-11-2006, 12:46 PM
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I try not to, but alas, I do. At times I tell Rebecca I don't want to talk when I'm on the road, because if I do, I might say something I'll regret later. Can't take it out on stupid drivers... But that urge is sometimes there. NO, JEFF, DON'T PUT THEM IN THE DITCH!
 When at home, I know were the door is. Better to leave and cool off then stay and say stupid things you don't really mean.  Last edited by jeffrey; 02-11-2006 at 12:49 PM.
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#9
02-11-2006, 12:54 PM
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I try to not take it out on others, but like everyone else I slip up sometimes (probably more than sometimes).
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#10
02-11-2006, 12:57 PM
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Mods, please correct my entry. For #3, I, late at night, understood "I won't try to take in out on anybody who gets in my way" and thus voted 3. If I feel bad, I don't want those feelings to influence others. Trying to shovel my problems onto anyone else would be immensely unethical (and un-Daoistic etc.) to me. Not to take it out on anybody else (missing option!) would be my way, so --> other.
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