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Old 07-15-2012, 11:34 PM
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Old 07-15-2012, 11:52 PM
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So you think you are responsible for her wanting to kill herself?
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Old 07-16-2012, 12:04 AM
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I used to give a lot of advice on this forum as another user now I need some. I have been with a married woman for about 2 decades. I could not get what I needed out of the relationship so I broke off the relationship. She told everyone after I broke it off. She is devastated. She tried to commit suicide it was not successful. I cannot live with this guilt it is more than I can bare. Plus I am sure everyone wants to kill me. I do believe in God but to cop out and say God will forgive me is not acceptable for I am so responsible. The shame, the guilt is overwhelming. As strange as it may sound everything I did was out of love, that is true maybe my heart is to big. I guess to sum it all up is how do I forgive myself? I have made such an error in judgement. For all you judgmental folks out there.....Love is overwhelming and unending so no haters because i need help not hatred.
Honestly, and in all earnest sincerity, you need seek out professional help, soon.

This is NOT the place to find answers from non-professionals.

Priest,minister, rabbi, shaman, or secular psychotherapist..some sort of professional skilled in dealing directly with the issues you present.

Get real help. Now.
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Old 07-16-2012, 12:45 AM
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doing what is right isnt always easy, sometimes its painful.

if she wasnt your wife, then she was never really yours to begin with.
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No hate from me.

You can heal, but you mustn't do it alone. You must seek some kind of professional help; as s2a said, there is little to nothing most people here can do.
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Old 07-16-2012, 01:52 AM
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Honestly, and in all earnest sincerity, you need seek out professional help, soon.

This is NOT the place to find answers from non-professionals.

Priest,minister, rabbi, shaman, or secular psychotherapist..some sort of professional skilled in dealing directly with the issues you present.

Get real help. Now.
This is my advice as well.
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Old 07-16-2012, 02:43 AM
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I second s2a's and Riverwolf's posts. You need to have some professional help; there's little we here can offer you other than a community. Consider speaking to a priest, or rabbi, or whatever, and if (and I suppose this is the big "if") you can afford it, a professional psychotherapist and follow their advice.
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