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10-01-2008, 11:45 AM
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You're not buying it, are you?  
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10-01-2008, 11:49 AM
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Is that suppose to be the same as placing a band aid on a wound and covering it up, forget it, you can't see it now and it time it will heal. Just cover the surface.
In my opinion anything you used Dallas I probably could handle better than a man telling me it's not what it looks like.....  Anyway I had a friend who had the same thing happen last spring, I wrote about it on RF, she was the one who was married to the doctor....by the way they divorced. It's not what it looks like, she has a flat tire and he's pumping it up..  the other woman is really a doctor and she's just checking him out...
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10-01-2008, 11:49 AM
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I swear its TOTALLY not what you think!..I LOVE YOU not HER! Love Dallas
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At this point..? Im at a loss for signature words.. Last edited by DallasApple; 10-01-2008 at 12:22 PM.
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10-01-2008, 11:54 AM
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He is trying to 'minimize" what is going on not litterally make her think what she saw isnt what she saw.....He's trying to tell her that its not as bad..sorted..sneaky..involved..as what she might be thinking it is... Because they will also say things like.."it was ONLY one time"...or "I was going to end it"...Scrambling for some saving grace..to not appear to be selfish and heartless... Love Dallas
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10-01-2008, 11:59 AM
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10-01-2008, 11:59 AM
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What Im trying to say is ..MOST adulterers that arent interested in leaving their spouse for another person say that very thing or a variation of it...Its the opening statement for the later "damage control" that ultimately comes out..He's not trying to cushion her blow..He scrambling to cushion his blow..He's trying desperately to have influence over the ultimate outcome by minimizing what is going on...
Love Dallas
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10-01-2008, 12:00 PM
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10-01-2008, 12:02 PM
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The Lord bless you, and keep you; The Lord make His face shine on you, And be gracious to you; The Lord lift up His countenance on you, And give you peace.
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10-01-2008, 12:08 PM
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Also...if she plans on trying to save the mariage??..Tell her to be prepared to take some "responsiblilty"(not blame for him choosing that route) for ultimately why he WANTED or felt he NEEDED another woman...
Because I can tell you here is how it goes.."do you love her"..if the answer is no..next question is ..."do still love me"..if the answer is yes...the next question is "then WHY did you do this"... And the Gods honest truth Charity??..Is most of the time..its not because the man is just a sex pig rat fink...who has a perfect marriage and just wanted a little something on the side... Adultery is(most of the time)..the "symptom or outcome" of a broken marriage..Not the "cause" of a broken marriage.. And that is hard to hear..But if you want to recover..You have to face it.. Love Dallas
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At this point..? Im at a loss for signature words.. Last edited by DallasApple; 10-01-2008 at 12:26 PM.
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10-01-2008, 12:09 PM
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