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09-27-2008, 12:36 PM
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I resent the institution of marriage.
No, I do not resent people who are happily married.
I am a lover after all. I resent that marriage, as it stands in our society today, outcasts those who would love differently. Same sex, and polyamorous lovers. We become the outcasts, the behind closed door secrets. When many of us finally REALize our selves, later in life... we are labeled the home wreckers and cheaters, deviants, and sinners. We are not allowed to "ligitamately" form families to our liking. We are not allowed to express, celebrate, and live out our love publically. Our love is illegitamate. It is made illegitamate in the face/farce of this modeled lifestyle we call "marriage". So please do not think my slams at marriage on the forum are slams against anyone's happiness in their marriage. Quite the contrary. I hate how the "force" of marriage (as upheld in our society) makes my own polyamorous nature, my own love/family fulfillment, my own relational happiness, a challange of epic proportion, and something I feel shunned from sharing... even here. And how many others, going by this marriage model we are raised with, never ever come to realize the true reason(s) why their marriage(s) don't work... and why they are never happy in their committed relationships. You can't council a bananna into a mellon. Or a grape into a cluster.
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Last edited by UltraViolet; 09-27-2008 at 05:27 PM. 
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09-27-2008, 01:01 PM
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Yeah...
Well I resent the ball being thrown in the womans face in that stupid article.. The crap we have to put up with and then be told to shut up or we might scare the po thing! Maybe thats why WOMEN are choosing less and less to marry... Is it really worth it to get married anymore and keep your trap shut???..Or just have serial relationships that once its time for her to shut up she can move on to the next that has the capacity to talk???? Thats what Im wondering! Love Dallas
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09-27-2008, 01:13 PM
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Oh and by the way...
It not just "polygymist" souls that get slammed...Its all of us!..Just being a woman in a LONG term monogomous relationship IM responsible for his "suffering".. And gay people and bisexuals get slammed too...Its all of us... Except...Man..woman...(man work...woman polite and HEPLMEET man and have him lots of sex for him the man..woman take care of babies..have happy happy life and go to church..and never yell....have boy and girl child.. and beat them with rod so they RESPECT  I mean not to knock that but HELLO!!)Love Dallas
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09-27-2008, 01:25 PM
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Oh and P.S...Im not saying you dont have it worse..
Love Dallas
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09-27-2008, 02:32 PM
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Perhpaps Dallas,
we would see less serial polygamy (ie divorce) if people allowed themselves... and their spouses to REALize their love in another as well. So if your spouse loves another? really loves them, and loves you as well... is there absolutely NO room for that? No way to make that work? Or do we just ditch the marriage, and keep starting all over again. closed models close minds.
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09-27-2008, 02:38 PM
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Im just not sharing!!! NO way.... ONE at a time if anything...Im JEALOUS!!! He can have me or everyone else! He can't love me and someone else that way! Im weird!!! Im stingy and greedy and possesive!  Love Dallas
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09-27-2008, 02:38 PM
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And so if one partner likes to talk about the stuff you need/want to,
and the other doesen't, you have taken care of that need in your life, without making unnatural demands on the one who doesn't share that need.
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09-27-2008, 02:40 PM
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We are going to the local "October Fest"...I have to make myself "presentable"! LOL!!!
Love  Dallas
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09-27-2008, 02:40 PM
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I never said you were closed minded.
I said the closed (2 partner) model of marriage, closes minds (from a young age), to other more open possibilities. People just ASSUME well, two is it. And that's the way it is. That's how it's supposed to be. And they never think beyond that to any other possibility.
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