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Old 02-03-2007, 11:56 AM
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Read at your own risk. It contains graphic descriptions and content which you may take very, very personally.

But if your mind is completely open, you're never going to look at this issue the same way again.

http://www.nospank.net/sexdngr.htm
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Not sure why this is in religious debates but the article makes some good points and addresses the punishment/sexual angle I hadn't thought of before. Good thing I didn't spank my kids.

However, I think there are exaggerations cited by "experts" that cause me to question the sources, or at least leave me to wonder if they are quoted out of context.....

“Being beaten excites children sexually because it is an intense excitation of the erogenous zones of the skin of the buttocks and of the muscles below the skin...”
Otto Fenichel, M.D. The Psychoanalytic Theory of Neurosis (1945)

And:

“Spanking on the buttocks can produce definitely erotic sensations, including sexual orgasm, in some children.


I can't imagine all children are excited sexually during spanking and I was unaware that a "child" could orgasm, period.
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Old 02-03-2007, 12:27 PM
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Riiiight. Sorry, I don't buy it.
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I can't imagine all children are excited sexually during spanking and I was unaware that a "child" could orgasm, period.

I was very aware of it as a child, although I hadn't a clue at the time what it was or that it was normal to do. I was also aware of the erotic nature of spanking... which was, um, very confusing to say the least.
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Riiiight. Sorry, I don't buy it.
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Children masturbate in the womb and little girls, in particular, can orgasm.
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I was very aware of it as a child, although I hadn't a clue at the time what it was or that it was normal to do. I was also aware of the erotic nature of spanking... which was, um, very confusing to say the least.
I'm not questioning the notion that "some" children could be excited sexually but, I greatly dislike exaggerations as implied by the expert. But, as I noted...the quotation could be taken out of context. I do think there is definitely some merit in the premise of spanking being sexual for some kids.

And I also understand your comment about it being erotic....but erotic is different than orgasm. I was unaware that a prepubescent child could orgasm. Do you know if that's true? I could imagine a child being somewhat aroused but not to the point of orgasm. Is this too randy of a subject for this section?
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I can't imagine all children are excited sexually during spanking and I was unaware that a "child" could orgasm, period.
I orgasmed quite regularly from at least second grade on. I don't recall any sorts of... confusion from being spanked as a child, but I was only spanked twice. I was more humiliated than anything.
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I orgasmed quite regularly from at least second grade on. I don't recall any sorts of... confusion from being spanked as a child, but I was only spanked twice. I was more humiliated than anything.
Well, it looks like from the responses so far in this thread that I freakin missed out as a kid! Not from the spanking but from...you know. Not fair!
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